وَعَنْهَا أَيْضًا قَالَتْ دَخَلَتِ امْرَأَةُ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيِّ وَأَنَا وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ إِنَّ رِفَاعَةَ طَلَّقَنِيَ الْبَتَّةَ وَإِنَّ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزُّبَيْرِ تَزَوَّجَنِي وَإِنَّمَا عِنْدَهُ مِثْلُ هُدْبَةٍ وَأَخَذَتْ هُدْبَةً مِنْ جِلْبَابِهَا وَخَالِدُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ بِالْبَابِ لَمْ يُؤْذَنْ لَهُ فَقَالَ يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ أَلَا تَنْهَى هَذِهِ عَمَّا تَجْهَرُ بِهِ بَيْنَ يَدَيْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَمَا زَادَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَلَى التَّبَسُّمِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَأَنَّكِ تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ لَا حَتَّى تَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ وَيَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ
Narrated from Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) that the wife of Sayyiduna Rifa’ah Qarzi (may Allah be pleased with him) came while I and Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) were also sitting with the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). She said that Rifa’ah has given me an irrevocable divorce and I have married Sayyiduna Abdur Rahman bin Zubair (may Allah be pleased with him), but his private part is like the fringe of this garment of mine. Then she took hold of the fringe of her sheet to clarify. Meanwhile, Sayyiduna Khalid bin Sa’id (may Allah be pleased with him) was standing at the door; he had not yet been granted permission to enter. He said from outside: O Abu Bakr! Why do you not stop this woman? How can she speak in such an open manner before the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)? Upon this, the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) merely smiled slightly and said nothing. Then he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Is it your intention to return to Rifa’ah? No, absolutely not. You cannot go back to him until you have enjoyed intimacy with this husband and he has enjoyed intimacy with you.