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الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
بيان موانع النكاحExplanation of Impediments to Marriage
باب فضل إحسان العِشْرَةِ وَحُسْنِ الْخُلُقِ مَعَ الزوجةChapter: The Virtue of Good Companionship and Good Character with the Wife
Hadith 7127
اُردوEn
عَنِ النُّعْمَانِ بْنِ بَشِيرٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ جَاءَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ يَسْتَأْذِنُ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَسَمِعَ عَائِشَةَ وَهِيَ رَافِعَةٌ صَوْتَهَا عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَأَذِنَ لَهُ فَدَخَلَ فَقَالَ يَا ابْنَةَ أُمِّ رُومَانَ وَتَنَاوَلَهَا أَتَرْفَعِينَ صَوْتَكِ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ فَحَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَهَا قَالَ فَلَمَّا خَرَجَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ جَعَلَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ لَهَا يَتَرَضَّاهَا أَنْ تَرَيْنَ أَنِّي قَدْ حُلْتُ بَيْنَ الرَّجُلِ وَبَيْنَكِ قَالَ ثُمَّ جَاءَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ فَاسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَيْهِ فَوَجَدَهُ يُضَاحِكُهَا قَالَ فَأَذِنَ لَهُ فَدَخَلَ فَقَالَ لَهُ أَبُو بَكْرٍ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَشْرِكَانِي فِي سِلْمِكُمَا كَمَا أَشْرَكْتُمَانِي فِي حَرْبِكُمَا
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Nu’man bin Bashir (may Allah be pleased with him) that Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) came and sought permission to enter the house of the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). At the same time, he heard that Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) was speaking in a loud voice with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). So he said to his daughter: O daughter of Umm Ruman! Are you raising your voice over the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)? Then the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) intervened between Sayyiduna Abu Bakr and Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with them both). When Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) went out, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) began to say to her to please her: Do you not see that I intervened between you and your father to save you? Later, when Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) came, he found the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) in such a state that he was laughing with Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her). So he sought permission and said: O Messenger of Allah! Admit me into your environment of reconciliation just as you admitted me into your environment of dispute.
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … Reflect that the Leader of the Prophets (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) is pleasing his wife, and by doing so, the wife is greatly encouraged and her spirit of obedience increases. Sayyidah Umm Ruman (radi Allahu anha) was the wife of Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (radi Allahu anhu); her name was Zainab or Da’d.
