الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
بيان موانع النكاحExplanation of Impediments to Marriage
بَابُ حَقِّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى الزَّوْجَةِChapter: The Right of the Husband Over the Wife
Hadith 7113
اُردوEn
عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ يَزِيدَ إِحْدَى نِسَاءِ بَنِي عَبْدِ الْأَشْهَلِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ مَرَّ بِنَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَنَحْنُ فِي نِسْوَةٍ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْنَا وَقَالَ إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ فَقُلْنَا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَمَا كُفْرُ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ قَالَ لَعَلَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ أَنْ تَطُولَ أَيْمَتُهَا بَيْنَ أَبَوَيْهَا وَتَعْنُسَ فَيَرْزُقَهَا اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ زَوْجَهَا وَيَرْزُقَهَا مِنْهُ مَالًا وَوَلَدًا فَتَغْضَبُ الْغَضْبَةَ فَتَقُولَ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْهُ يَوْمًا خَيْرًا قَطُّ وَفِي لَفْظٍ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْهُ خَيْرًا قَطُّ
Sayyida Asma bint Yazid Ansariyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) says that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) passed by us while we were some women sitting together. He (peace and blessings be upon him) greeted us with salam and then said: Refrain from being ungrateful like the prosperous people. We asked: O Messenger of Allah! What is the ingratitude of the prosperous people? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: It may be that you spend a long time with your parents living unmarried, then Allah Almighty grants you a husband and, through him, blesses you with children, but one day in anger you say (to your husband): I have never seen any good or benefit from you.
