عَنِ الْحُصَيْنِ بْنِ مِحْصَنٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ عَمَّةً لَهُ أَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي حَاجَةٍ فَفَرَغَتْ مِنْ حَاجَتِهَا فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَذَاتُ زَوْجٍ أَنْتِ قَالَتْ نَعَمْ قَالَ كَيْفَ أَنْتِ لَهُ قَالَتْ مَا آلُوهُ إِلَّا مَا عَجَزْتُ عَنْهُ قَالَ انْظُرِي أَيْنَ أَنْتِ مِنْهُ فَإِنَّمَا هُوَ جَنَّتُكِ وَنَارُكِ
Sayyiduna Husayn bin Muhsan (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that his paternal aunt came to the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) for some need, and when she finished her work, the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Are you married?" She replied: "Yes." He (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "How are you towards your husband?" She said: "I do not fall short in serving him, except in matters that are beyond my ability." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Then consider carefully how you are with him, for he is your Paradise and he is your Hell."