حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الصَّمَدِ ثَنَا هَمَّامٌ ثَنَا قَتَادَةُ عَنِ الْحَسَنِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ الثَّقَفِيِّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ عَنْ رَجُلٍ أَعْوَرَ مِنْ ثَقِيفٍ قَالَ قَتَادَةُ وَكَانَ يُقَالُ لَهُ مَعْرُوفٌ إِنْ لَمْ يَكُنْ اسْمُهُ زُهَيْرَ بْنَ عُثْمَانَ فَلَا أَدْرِي مَا اسْمُهُ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ وَلِيمَةُ أَوَّلِ يَوْمٍ حَقٌّ وَالثَّانِي مَعْرُوفٌ وَالْيَوْمِ الثَّالِثِ سُمْعَةٌ وَرِيَاءٌ
There was a one-eyed man from Banu Thaqif. Imam Qatadah says: He is called Ma'ruf, and if his name was not Zuhair bin Uthman, then I do not know what his name was. In any case, it is narrated from this man that the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: The walimah (wedding feast) of the first day is a right, the second day is a customary practice, and the walimah of the third day is for fame and show.