عَنْ عَبَّادِ بْنِ مَنْصُورٍ قَالَ قُلْتُ لِلْقَاسِمِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ امْرَأَةُ أَبِي أَرْضَعَتْ جَارِيَةً مِنْ عُرْضِ النَّاسِ بِلَبَنِ أَخَوَيَّ أَفَتَرَى أَنِّي أَتَزَوَّجُهَا فَقَالَ لَا أَبُوكِ أَبُوهَا قَالَ ثُمَّ حَدَّثَ حَدِيثَ أَبِي الْقُعَيْسِ فَقَالَ إِنَّ أَبَا الْقُعَيْسِ أَتَى عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا يَسْتَأْذِنُ عَلَيْهَا فَلَمْ تَأْذَنْ لَهُ فَلَمَّا جَاءَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ أَبَا قُعَيْسٍ جَاءَ يَسْتَأْذِنُ عَلَيَّ فَلَمْ آذَنْ لَهُ فَقَالَ هُوَ عَمُّكِ فَلْيَدْخُلْ عَلَيْكِ فَقُلْتُ إِنَّمَا أَرْضَعَتْنِي الْمَرْأَةُ وَلَمْ يُرْضِعْنِي الرَّجُلُ فَقَالَ هُوَ عَمُّكِ فَلْيَدْخُلْ عَلَيْكِ
Abbad bin Mansur says: I said to Qasim bin Muhammad: My father's wife nursed a girl from among the people for my brothers; now can I marry that girl? He said: No, because now your and that girl's father is the same. Then he narrated the hadith of Abu Qais, and it is as follows: Abu Qais came to Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) and sought permission to enter upon her, but she did not grant him permission. When the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) arrived, Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said: O Messenger of Allah! Abu Qais came and sought permission to enter upon me, but I did not allow him. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: He is your uncle; he should come to you. I said: The woman nursed me, not the man? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: I am telling you, he is your uncle; he can come to you.