الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
مسائل النكاحIssues of Marriage
بَابُ مَا جَاءَ فِي تَزْوِيجِ الْآبِ بِنتَهُ الشَّيْبَ أَوِ الْبِكْرَ الْبَالِغَ بِغَيْرِ رَضَاهَاChapter: What Has Been Reported Regarding a Father Marrying Off His Adult Virgin or Previously Married Daughter Without Her Consent
Hadith 6898
اُردوEn
عَنْ حَجَّاجِ بْنِ السَّائِبِ بْنِ أَبِي لُبَابَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْمُنْذِرِ الْأَنْصَارِيِّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ جَدَّتَهُ أُمَّ السَّائِبِ خُنَاسَ بِنْتَ خِذَامِ بْنِ خَالِدٍ كَانَتْ عِنْدَ رَجُلٍ قَبْلَ أَبِي لُبَابَةَ تَأَيَّمَتْ مِنْهُ فَزَوَّجَهَا أَبُوهَا خِذَامُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ رَجُلًا مِنْ بَنِي عَمْرِو بْنِ عَوْفِ بْنِ الْخَزْرَجِ فَأَبَتْ إِلَّا أَنْ تَحُطَّ إِلَى أَبِي لُبَابَةَ وَأَبَى أَبُوهَا إِلَّا أَنْ يَلْزِمَهَا الْعَوْفِيَّ حَتَّى ارْتَفَعَ أَمْرُهَا إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ هِيَ أَوْلَى بِأَمْرِهَا فَأَلْحِقْهَا بِهَوَاهَا قَالَ فَانْتُزِعَتْ مِنَ الْعَوْفِيِّ وَتَزَوَّجَتْ أَبَا لُبَابَةَ فَوَلَدَتْ لَهُ أَبَا السَّائِبِ بْنَ أَبِي لُبَابَةَ
It is narrated from Hajjaj bin Saib that his grandmother (maternal or paternal), Umm Saib Khunas bint Khidam, was the wife of another man before coming under the marriage of Abu Lubabah. That man died and she became a widow. Then her father Khidam married her to a man from Banu Amr bin Awf bin Khazraj, but she refused to go to him and insisted that she wanted to marry Abu Lubabah. However, her father was adamant that she would only go to the house of a man from the tribe of Awf. Eventually, this matter was brought before the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him). He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: This woman has more right over her own matter, so marry her according to her wish. Thus, she was separated from the man of Awf and married Abu Lubabah, from whom Saib bin Abi Lubabah was born.
