عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا أَنَّهُ خَطَبَ إِلَى نَسِيبٍ لَهُ ابْنَتَهُ قَالَ فَكَانَ هَوَى أُمِّ الْمَرْأَةِ فِي ابْنِ عُمَرَ وَكَانَ هَوَى أَبِيهَا فِي يَتِيمٍ لَهُ قَالَ فَزَوَّجَهَا الْأَبُ يَتِيمَهُ ذَلِكَ فَجَاءَتْ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَذَكَرَتْ ذَلِكَ لَهُ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ آمِرُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي بَنَاتِهِنَّ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) that he sent a marriage proposal for his close relative’s daughter through her lineage. The mother of the girl inclined towards Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both), but the father wished to marry her to an orphan under his care, so he married her to that orphan. Her mother came to the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and mentioned this matter to him. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Consult your women regarding the marriage of your daughters.