عَنْ عَدِيِّ بْنِ عَدِيٍّ الْكِنْدِيِّ عَنْ أَبِيهِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ أَشِيرُوا عَلَى النِّسَاءِ فِي أَنْفُسِهِنَّ فَقَالُوا إِنَّ الْبِكْرَ تَسْتَحْيِي يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ الثَّيِّبُ تُعْرِبُ عَنْ نَفْسِهَا بِلِسَانِهَا وَالْبِكْرُ رَضَاهَا صَمْتُهَا
Narrated from Sayyiduna ‘Adi bin ‘Adi Kindi (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Seek counsel from women regarding them. The people said: O Messenger of Allah! A virgin feels shy. The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: The widow will express herself verbally about her own matter, and the consent of the virgin will be her silence.