(Second chain) The Noble Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: A widow has more right over herself than her guardian, and the father of a virgin should seek her permission regarding herself, and her silence is her permission.
Hadith Takhrij«انظر الحديث بالطريق الاول ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 1897»
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … The meaning of the first sentence of the hadith is that both the widow has a right and her guardian (wali) has a right. The right of the guardian is that marriage should not be conducted without his involvement, and the right of the widow is that if she does not accept a person as a husband, she should not be forced, because in this matter the right of the widow is greater. Understand this with the following example: if the guardian wishes to marry such a woman to a man, but she is not agreeable, then she will not be forced and the guardian should abandon his intention. However, when such a woman agrees to marry a man and the guardian is not agreeable, then the guardian will be compelled to express his consent and arrange her marriage.