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الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
مسائل النكاحIssues of Marriage
بَابُ التَّرْغِيبِ فِي التَّزْوِيجِ مَنْ ذِي الدِّينِ وَالْخُلُقِ المرضي وَإِنْ كَانَ فَقِيرًا أَوْ دَمِيمَ الْخِلْقَةِChapter: Encouragement to Marry One with Religion and Good Character Even If He Is Poor or Unattractive
Hadith 6857
اُردوEn
عَنْ ثَابِتٍ الْبُنَانِيِّ عَنْ أَنَسٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ خَطَبَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَلَى جُلَيْبِيبٍ امْرَأَةً مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ إِلَى أَبِيهَا فَقَالَ حَتَّى أَسْتَأْمِرَ أُمَّهَا فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَنَعَمْ إِذًا فَانْطَلَقَ الرَّجُلُ إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ لَهَا فَقَالَتْ لَا هَا اللَّهِ إِذَا مَا وَجَدَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِلَّا جُلَيْبِيبًا وَقَدْ مَنَعْنَاهَا مِنْ فُلَانٍ وَفُلَانٍ قَالَ وَالْجَارِيَةُ فِي سِتْرِهَا تَسْتَمِعُ قَالَ فَانْطَلَقَ الرَّجُلُ يُرِيدُ أَنْ يُخْبِرَ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِذَلِكَ فَقَالَتِ الْجَارِيَةُ أَتُرِيدُونَ أَنْ تَرُدُّوا عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَمْرَهُ إِنْ كَانَ قَدْ رَضِيَهُ لَكُمْ فَأَنْكِحُوهُ فَكَأَنَّهَا جَلَّتْ عَنْ أَبَوَيْهَا وَقَالَا صَدَقْتِ فَذَهَبَ أَبُوهَا إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ إِنْ كُنْتَ قَدْ رَضِيتَهُ فَقَدْ رَضِينَا قَالَ فَإِنِّي قَدْ رَضِيتُهُ فَزَوَّجَهَا ثُمَّ فَزِعَ أَهْلُ الْمَدِينَةِ فَرَكِبَ جُلَيْبِيبُ فَوَجَدُوهُ قَدْ قُتِلَ وَحَوْلَهُ نَاسٌ مِنَ الْمُشْرِكِينَ قَدْ قَتَلَهُمْ قَالَ أَنَسٌ فَلَقَدْ رَأَيْتُهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَمِنْ أَنْفَقِ بَيْتٍ فِي الْمَدِينَةِ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sent a proposal for Sayyiduna Julaibib (may Allah be pleased with him) to the father of an Ansari woman. Her father said: I will consult her mother. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Alright. That man went to his wife and mentioned the matter to her. She said: No, by Allah! This cannot happen. Has the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) found only Julaibib for us? We did not even give her in marriage to so-and-so and so-and-so. The girl was listening to this conversation from behind the curtain. The man set out to inform the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). The girl said: Are you rejecting the command of the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)? If he (peace and blessings be upon him) has chosen him, then marry me to him. By saying this, the girl revealed the hidden matter to her parents. They said: She is speaking the truth. Her father presented himself before the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: If you are pleased, then we are also pleased with this match. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: I am pleased. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) married Julaibib to that girl. Afterwards, once the people of Madinah were frightened, Sayyiduna Julaibib mounted to dispel it, but when the Muslims reached there, they found Julaibib in such a state that he had been killed, and some polytheists were lying dead around him. Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) says: I saw that woman, and her house was the most prosperous among the houses of Madinah.
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … Sayyiduna Julaibib radi Allahu anhu was not handsome, and for this reason such things were said about him. However, when this Ansari woman gave preference to the opinion of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, her destiny blossomed.
“The house of this woman was the most lively in Madinah”: This means that after the martyrdom of Sayyiduna Julaibib radi Allahu anhu, many people came with proposals to marry this woman. The reason for this honor was that, while people did not like Julaibib, this woman, out of regard for the opinion of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, married him, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam also supplicated for blessing for her.
The wording of a narration reported from Sayyiduna Abu Barzah radi Allahu anhu is as follows: “They said: O Messenger of Allah! Here is Julaibib lying beside seven (enemies); he killed them, then they killed him. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came to him and stood over his body and said: ‘He killed seven and they killed him. This one is from me and I am from him. This one is from me and I am from him.’ He said this two or three times. Then the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam placed him upon his forearms, and a grave was dug for him. He had no bier except the forearms of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Then he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam placed him in his grave, and it was not mentioned that he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gave him a ritual bath (ghusl).” (Sahih Muslim: 4519)
“The house of this woman was the most lively in Madinah”: This means that after the martyrdom of Sayyiduna Julaibib radi Allahu anhu, many people came with proposals to marry this woman. The reason for this honor was that, while people did not like Julaibib, this woman, out of regard for the opinion of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, married him, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam also supplicated for blessing for her.
The wording of a narration reported from Sayyiduna Abu Barzah radi Allahu anhu is as follows: “They said: O Messenger of Allah! Here is Julaibib lying beside seven (enemies); he killed them, then they killed him. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came to him and stood over his body and said: ‘He killed seven and they killed him. This one is from me and I am from him. This one is from me and I am from him.’ He said this two or three times. Then the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam placed him upon his forearms, and a grave was dug for him. He had no bier except the forearms of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Then he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam placed him in his grave, and it was not mentioned that he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gave him a ritual bath (ghusl).” (Sahih Muslim: 4519)
