Narrated by Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Women are married for four reasons: wealth, beauty, lineage, and religion. So succeed with the one who possesses religion, may your hands be dusted.
Hadith Takhrij«أخرجه البخاري: 5090، ومسلم: 1466 ، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 9521 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 9517»
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … In Islam, the fear of Allah and righteous deeds hold the greatest importance. The most honored in the sight of Allah is the one who fears Him the most. Therefore, a pious and religious woman should be given preference; in this lies the goodness and well-being of both religion and worldly life.
“May your hands be dust-laden,” “May your mother lose you,” “May your nose be dust-laden,” “Woe to you,” “May your mother die”—the Arabs do not intend the literal meanings of such phrases, which contain supplications for harm. Rather, their purpose in using these expressions is one of the following: to praise, to criticize, to express denial, to encourage, or to express amazement.