Narrated by Sayyiduna Abu Ayyub Ansari (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Four things are the practices of the noble Prophets: applying perfume, marriage, using the miswak, and living life with modesty.
Hadith Takhrij«اسناده ضعيف، حجاج بن ارطاة ليس بذاك القوي، وھو مدلس وقد عنعن، ومكحول عن ابي ايوب مرسل، بينھما في ھذا الحديث ابو الشمال بن ضباب وھو مجھول۔ أخرجه الترمذي: 1080 ، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 23581 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 23978»
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … In one narration, instead of "al-haya’" (modesty), the word "al-hina’" (henna) appears, and in another, the word "al-khitan" (circumcision) is used. The latter wording appears to be more correct, i.e., performing circumcision.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam encouraged every person who has the means to get married. Imam Ahmad, in light of the command of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, considered marriage to be obligatory (wajib), whereas the majority of scholars (jumhur ahl al-‘ilm) hold it to be recommended (mustahabb). The real matter is that the obligation or recommendation of marriage can differ for different individuals. For example, a person who has the ability to marry and also fears falling into sin, for him marriage is obligatory (wajib) and compulsory (fard).
Abundant and good food and drink increase sexual desire, whereas fasting (sawm) is about hunger and thirst, and a lack of nourishment breaks sexual desire. Therefore, fasting is beneficial for unmarried youth; in any case, fasting protects from sin. In other words, a fasting person remains calm like a castrated man.