الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
مسائل النكاحIssues of Marriage
بَابُ الْحَثِ عَلَيْهِ وَكَرَاهَةِ تَرْكِهِ لِلْقَادِرِChapter: Encouragement for It and Dislike of Abandoning It for the Capable
Hadith 6834
اُردوEn
عَنْ أَبِي ذَرٍّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ دَخَلَ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ رَجُلٌ يُقَالُ لَهُ عَكَّافُ بْنُ بِشْرٍ التَّمِيمِيُّ فَقَالَ لَهُ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَا عَكَّافُ هَلْ لَكَ مِنْ زَوْجَةٍ قَالَ لَا قَالَ وَلَا جَارِيَةٍ قَالَ وَلَا جَارِيَةٍ قَالَ وَأَنْتَ مُوسِرٌ بِخَيْرٍ قَالَ وَأَنَا مُوسِرٌ بِخَيْرٍ قَالَ أَنْتَ إِذًا مِنْ إِخْوَانِ الشَّيَاطِينِ لَوْ كُنْتَ فِي النَّصَارَى كُنْتَ مِنْ رُهْبَانِهِمْ إِنَّ سُنَّتَنَا النِّكَاحُ شِرَارُكُمْ عُزَّابُكُمْ وَأَرَاذِلُ مَوْتَاكُمْ عُزَّابُكُمْ أَبِالشَّيْطَانِ تَمَرَّسُونَ مَا لِلشَّيْطَانِ مِنْ سَلَاحٍ أَبْلَغُ فِي الصَّالِحِينَ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ إِلَّا الْمُتَزَوِّجُونَ أُولَئِكَ الْمُطَهَّرُونَ مِنَ الْخَنَا وَيْحَكَ يَا عَكَّافُ إِنَّهُنَّ صَوَاحِبُ أَيُّوبَ وَدَاوُدَ وَيُوسُفَ وَكُرْسُفَ فَقَالَ لَهُ بِشْرُ بْنُ عَطِيَّةَ وَمَنْ كُرْسُفُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَالَ رَجُلٌ كَانَ يَعْبُدُ اللَّهَ بِسَاحِلٍ مِنْ سَوَاحِلِ الْبَحْرِ ثَلَاثَ مِائَةِ عَامٍ يَصُومُ النَّهَارَ وَيَقُومُ اللَّيْلَ ثُمَّ إِنَّهُ كَفَّرَ بِاللَّهِ الْعَظِيمِ فِي سَبَبِ امْرَأَةٍ عَشِقَهَا وَتَرَكَ مَا كَانَ مِنْ عِبَادَةِ اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ ثُمَّ اسْتَدْرَكَ اللَّهُ بِبَعْضِ مَا كَانَ مِنْهُ فَتَابَ عَلَيْهِ وَيْحَكَ يَا عَكَّافُ تَزَوَّجْ وَإِلَّا فَأَنْتَ مِنَ الْمُذَبْذَبِينَ قَالَ زَوِّجْنِي يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَالَ قَدْ زَوَّجْتُكَ كَرِيمَةَ بِنْتَ كُلْثُومٍ الْحِمْيَرِيَّةَ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Dharr (may Allah be pleased with him) that a man named ‘Akkaf bin Bishr Tamimi came to the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: “O ‘Akkaf! Do you have a wife?” He replied: “No.” The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: “Not even a slave-girl?” He replied: “No.” The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: “Are you not wealthy?” He replied: “Yes, I am wealthy.” The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Then you are among the brothers of Satan. If you were among the Christians, you would have been a monk. Our Sunnah is marriage. The worst among you are those who are unmarried, and the most despicable among your dead are those who are unmarried. Do you play with Satan? The most effective weapon Satan has to ensnare the righteous is woman, except for married people, for they are safe from this weapon. They are pure from indecent things. O ‘Akkaf! These women were the companions of Ayyub, Dawud, Yusuf, and Karsaf.” Bishr bin Atiyyah asked: “O Messenger of Allah! Who was Karsaf?” The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) replied: “He was a man who worshipped on the seashore for three hundred years, fasting by day and standing in prayer by night. Then he fell in love with a woman and committed disbelief in Allah and abandoned worship. Then Allah, due to some of his deeds, made up for his deficiency and accepted his repentance.” The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “O ‘Akkaf! Woe to you, get married, otherwise you will remain hesitant and confused.” He said: “O Messenger of Allah! Then you arrange my marriage.” The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “I have married you to Karima bint Kulthum Himyari.”
