It is narrated from Sayyiduna Malik bin Nadlah (may Allah be pleased with him) that he asked the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): "What do you invite towards?" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) replied: "Towards Allah Almighty and maintaining family ties." I said: "A cousin of mine comes to me and I swear that I will not give him anything, but then I give him something.?" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Then offer expiation for your oath and choose the better option. Reflect yourself: if you had two slaves, one of whom obeys you, does not betray you, and does not lie to you, while the other betrays and lies to you—" I said: "No, rather the one who does not betray, does not lie, and speaks the truth would be more beloved to me." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "You are also like this in the sight of your Lord."
Hadith Referenceالفتح الربانی / كتاب الأيمان والنذور / 5341
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:صحیح
Hadith Takhrij«اسناده صحيح، أخرجه النسائي: 7/11، وابن ماجه: 2109، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 17228 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 17360»
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … The wording of the narration in al-Nasa’i is as follows: Sayyiduna Malik bin Nadlah radi Allahu anhu said: O Messenger of Allah! What is your opinion regarding this matter: I have a paternal cousin; I go to him and ask him (for something), but he neither gives me anything nor maintains the ties of kinship with me. Then, when he becomes needy, he comes to me and asks me (for something), while I have sworn an oath that I will neither give him anything nor maintain the ties of kinship with him … .