Hadith 4921

حَدَّثَنَا خُبَيْبُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ جَدِّهِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ أَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَهُوَ يُرِيدُ غَزْوًا أَنَا وَرَجُلٌ مِنْ قَوْمِي وَلَمْ نُسْلِمْ فَقُلْنَا إِنَّا نَسْتَحْيِي أَنْ يَشْهَدَ قَوْمُنَا مَشْهَدًا لَا نَشْهَدُهُ مَعَهُمْ قَالَ أَوَ أَسْلَمْتُمَا قُلْنَا لَا قَالَ فَإِنَّا لَا نَسْتَعِينُ بِالْمُشْرِكِينَ عَلَى الْمُشْرِكِينَ قَالَ فَأَسْلَمْنَا وَشَهِدْنَا مَعَهُ فَقَتَلْتُ رَجُلًا وَضَرَبَنِي ضَرْبَةً وَتَزَوَّجْتُ بِابْنَتِهِ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ فَكَانَتْ تَقُولُ لَا عَدِمْتَ رَجُلًا وَشَّحَكَ هَذَا الْوِشَاحَ فَأَقُولُ لَا عَدِمْتِ رَجُلًا عَجَّلَ أَبَاكِ النَّارَ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Khubaib bin Yasaf (may Allah be pleased with him), he says: I and a man from my tribe came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), while he (peace and blessings be upon him) was about to go for a battle. We had not yet become Muslims. So we said: Indeed, we feel ashamed that our tribe participates in a battle and we are not included with them. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Have you become Muslims? They said: No. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Indeed, in opposition to the polytheists, we do not seek help from the polytheists. Upon hearing this statement, we became Muslims and participated in that battle with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). I killed a man and he had also struck me a blow. Then I married his daughter. She used to say: Do not lose the man who struck you between the shoulder and the side, and I used to say to her: Do not lose the man who quickly sent your father into the fire.
Hadith Reference الفتح الربانی / كتاب الجهاد / 4921
Hadith Grading محدثین: ضعیف
Hadith Takhrij «اسناده ضعيف دون قوله: فلا نستعين بالمشركين علي المشركين۔ فھو صحيح لغيره، عبد الرحمن بن خبيب في عداد المجھولين، أخرجه ابن ابي شيبة: 12/ 394، والطبراني في الكبير : 4196، والحاكم: 2/ 121، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 15763 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 15855»