عَنْ بَهْزِ بْنِ حَكِيمٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ جَدِّهِ (مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنِ حَيْدَةَ) رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ: قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ! إِنَّا قَوْمٌ نَتَسَاءَلُ أَمْوَالَنَا، قَالَ: ((يَتَسَاءَلُ الرَّجُلُ فِي الْجَائِحَةِ وَالْفَتْقِ، لِيُصْلِحَ بِهِ بَيْنَ قَوْمِهِ، فَإِذَا بَلَغَ أَوْ كَرَبَ، اسْتَعَفَّ))
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Muawiyah bin Haydah, may Allah be pleased with him, that he said: O Messenger of Allah! We are a people who ask from one another (is this permissible?). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: A man asks among the people in order to reconcile between them in a calamity or a conflict, but when he reaches his objective or comes close to it, he refrains.