It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) cursed women who frequently visit graves.
Hadith Referenceالفتح الربانی / أبواب صلاة الجنازة / 3350
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:صحیح
Hadith Takhrij«اسناده حسن أخرجه ابن ماجه: 1576، والترمذي: 1056، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 8449 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 8430»
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … Although some scholars, in light of the aforementioned ahadith, have stated that it is an un-Islamic act for women to visit graveyards, it is evident from all the ahadith of this chapter that women, like men, may also visit graves. The aforementioned ahadith were stated by the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam at a time when visiting graveyards in general was prohibited. The proofs for this claim are as follows: