عَنْ أَبِي الرَّبِيعِ قَالَ: كُنْتُ مَعَ ابْنِ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ فِي جَنَازَةٍ فَسَمِعَ صَوْتَ إِنْسَانٍ يَصِيحُ فَبَعَثَ إِلَيْهِ فَأَسْكَتَهُ، فَقُلْتُ: يَا أَبَا عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ! لِمَ أَسْكَتَّهُ؟ قَالَ: إِنَّهُ يَتَأَذَّى بِهِ الْمَيِّتُ حَتَّى يَدْخُلَ قَبْرَهُ
Abu Rabi’ says: I was with Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) at a funeral. When he heard the voice of a weeper, he sent a man to silence him. I said: O Abu Abdur Rahman! Why did you make him quiet? He said: As long as the deceased has not been placed in the grave, he is punished because of this weeping.