عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: قِيلَ لَهَا: إِنَّ ابْنَ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ يَرْفَعُ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ: ((إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ يُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ الْحَيِّ))، قَالَتْ: وَهَلَ أَبُو عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، إِنَّمَا قَالَ: ((إِنَّ أَهْلَ الْمَيِّتِ يَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهِ وَإِنَّهُ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِجُرْمِهِ))
It is narrated from Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) that someone said to her that Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates this hadith from the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) that the deceased is punished because of the weeping of the living. She said: Abu Abdur Rahman has made a mistake; the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) actually said that: The relatives of the deceased are weeping over him, while he is being punished because of his own sins.