Hadith 11964

عَنْ أَبِي نَضْرَةَ عَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنَ الطُّفَاوَةِ قَالَ نَزَلْتُ عَلَى أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ وَلَمْ أُدْرِكْ مِنْ صَحَابَةِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ رَجُلًا أَشَدَّ تَشْمِيرًا وَلَا أَقْوَمَ عَلَى ضَيْفٍ مِنْهُ فَبَيْنَمَا أَنَا عِنْدَهُ وَهُوَ عَلَى سَرِيرٍ لَهُ وَأَسْفَلَ مِنْهُ جَارِيَةٌ لَهُ سَوْدَاءُ وَمَعَهُ كِيسٌ فِيهِ حَصًى وَنَوًى يَقُولُ سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ حَتَّى إِذَا أَنْفَذَ مَا فِي الْكِيسِ أَلْقَاهُ إِلَيْهَا فَجَمَعَتْهُ فَجَعَلَتْهُ فِي الْكِيسِ ثُمَّ دَفَعَتْهُ إِلَيْهِ فَقَالَ لِي أَلَا أُحَدِّثُكَ عَنِّي وَعَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قُلْتُ بَلَى قَالَ فَإِنِّي بَيْنَمَا أَنَا أُوعَكُ فِي مَسْجِدِ الْمَدِينَةِ إِذْ دَخَلَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ الْمَسْجِدَ فَقَالَ ”مَنْ أَحَسَّ الْفَتَى الدَّوْسِيَّ مَنْ أَحَسَّ الْفَتَى الدَّوْسِيَّ“ فَقَالَ لَهُ قَائِلٌ هُوَ ذَاكَ يُوعَكُ فِي جَانِبِ الْمَسْجِدِ حَيْثُ تَرَى يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ فَجَاءَ فَوَضَعَ يَدَهُ عَلَيَّ وَقَالَ لِي مَعْرُوفًا فَقُمْتُ فَانْطَلَقَ حَتَّى قَامَ فِي مَقَامِهِ الَّذِي يُصَلِّي فِيهِ وَمَعَهُ يَوْمَئِذٍ صَفَّانِ مِنْ رِجَالٍ وَصَفٌّ مِنْ نِسَاءٍ أَوْ صَفَّانِ مِنْ نِسَاءٍ وَصَفٌّ مِنْ رِجَالٍ فَأَقْبَلَ عَلَيْهِمْ فَقَالَ ”إِنْ نَسَّانِي الشَّيْطَانُ شَيْئًا مِنْ صَلَاتِي فَلْيُسَبِّحِ الْقَوْمُ وَلْتُصَفِّقِ النِّسَاءُ“ فَصَلَّى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَلَمْ يَنْسَ مِنْ صَلَاتِهِ شَيْئًا فَلَمَّا سَلَّمَ أَقْبَلَ عَلَيْهِمْ بِوَجْهِهِ فَقَالَ ”مَجَالِسَكُمْ هَلْ مِنْكُمْ إِذَا أَتَى أَهْلَهُ أَغْلَقَ بَابَهُ وَأَرْخَى سِتْرَهُ ثُمَّ يَخْرُجُ فَيُحَدِّثُ فَيَقُولُ فَعَلْتُ بِأَهْلِي كَذَا وَفَعَلْتُ بِأَهْلِي كَذَا“ فَسَكَتُوا فَأَقْبَلَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ فَقَالَ ”هَلْ مِنْكُنَّ مَنْ تُحَدِّثُ“ فَجَثَتْ فَتَاةٌ كَعَابٌ عَلَى إِحْدَى رُكْبَتَيْهَا وَتَطَاوَلَتْ لِيَرَاهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَيَسْمَعَ كَلَامَهَا فَقَالَتْ إِي وَاللَّهِ إِنَّهُمْ لَيُحَدِّثُونَ وَإِنَّهُنَّ لَيُحَدِّثْنَ فَقَالَ ”هَلْ تَدْرُونَ مَا مَثَلُ مَنْ فَعَلَ ذَلِكَ إِنَّ مَثَلَ مَنْ فَعَلَ ذَلِكَ مَثَلُ شَيْطَانٍ وَشَيْطَانَةٍ لَقِيَ أَحَدُهُمَا صَاحِبَهُ بِالسِّكَّةِ قَضَى حَاجَتَهُ مِنْهَا وَالنَّاسُ يَنْظُرُونَ إِلَيْهِ“ ثُمَّ قَالَ ”أَلَا لَا يُفْضِيَنَّ رَجُلٌ إِلَى رَجُلٍ وَلَا امْرَأَةٌ إِلَى امْرَأَةٍ إِلَّا إِلَى وَلَدٍ أَوْ وَالِدٍ“ قَالَ وَذَكَرَ ثَالِثَةً فَنَسِيتُهَا ”أَلَا إِنَّ طِيبَ الرَّجُلِ مَا وُجِدَ رِيحُهُ وَلَمْ يَظْهَرْ لَوْنُهُ أَلَا إِنَّ طِيبَ النِّسَاءِ مَا ظَهَرَ لَوْنُهُ وَلَمْ يُوجَدْ رِيحُهُ“
It is narrated from Abu Nazrah, who narrates from a member of the Banu Tufawah tribe, that I stayed as a guest with Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him). Among the companions, I did not find anyone more hospitable than him. I was staying with him while he was sitting on his cot, and his dark-skinned slave girl was below. Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) had a pouch containing pebbles and date stones. Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) kept reciting "Subhan Allah, Subhan Allah," and when the pouch became empty, he would throw it towards the slave girl, and she would gather all the pebbles and date stones into the pouch and hand it back to him. Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) said to me: Shall I not tell you an incident between myself and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)? I said: Yes, please tell me. He said: I had a fever and I was in the mosque of Madinah, i.e., Masjid Nabawi, when the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) entered the mosque and said: Does anyone have knowledge about the young man from Daws, i.e., Abu Hurairah? Does anyone have knowledge about the young man from Daws? (Where is he?) Someone informed the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him): O Messenger of Allah! Look, he is lying in a corner of the mosque suffering from fever. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came and placed his blessed hand upon me and spoke to me with loving words, until I stood up. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) walked to his place of prayer. That day, there were two rows of men and one row of women, or two rows of women and one row of men, with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) turned to the people and said: If Satan causes me to forget something in prayer, then the men should say "Subhan Allah," and the women should strike one hand upon the other to make a sound (so that I may be alerted to my mistake or forgetfulness). The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) led the prayer and did not forget anything in the prayer. After completing the prayer and turning in greeting, he faced the people and said: Remain seated in your places. Are there any among you who, after going to their families, closing the door, and hanging the curtains, (after fulfilling their marital rights), go out and tell people: I did this and that with my wife? Upon hearing this, the companions remained silent. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) turned to the women and said: Is there any woman among you who does such things? Then a young girl with a prominent chest, sitting on one knee, raised her neck a little to look at the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) so that he would notice her and listen to her. She said: By Allah! Men do such things and women do as well. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Do you know what the example is of those who do such things? The example of those who do such things is like that of a devil and a she-devil who meet on the road and fulfill their desires with each other in public. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) further said: Beware! No man should lie down with another man or woman under one garment, nor should any woman lie down with a man or woman under one garment, except for a father and his son. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) mentioned a third thing as well, which I have forgotten. Beware! The fragrance of men should be such that it has only scent and no color, and the fragrance of women should be such that it has color but no scent.
Hadith Reference الفتح الربانی / 11964
Hadith Grading محدثین: ضعیف
Hadith Takhrij «اسناده ضعيف لجھالة الطفاوي، ولبعض قطع ھذا الحديث شواھد تقويه، اخرجه ابوداود: 2174، 4019،والترمذي: 2787،والنسائي: 8/ 151 ، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 10977 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 10990»