الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
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فَمِنْهُمْ فَاطِمَةُ الزَّهْرَاءُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَاْAmong Them Is Fatimah al-Zahra (may Allah be pleased with her)
Hadith 11375
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عَنْ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي رَافِعٍ عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّهُ بَعَثَ إِلَيْهِ حَسَنُ بْنُ حَسَنٍ يَخْطُبُ ابْنَتَهُ فَقَالَ لَهُ قُلْ لَهُ فَلْيَأْتِنِي فِي الْعَتَمَةِ قَالَ فَلَقِيَهُ فَحَمِدَ الْمِسْوَرُ اللَّهَ وَأَثْنَى عَلَيْهِ وَقَالَ أَمَّا بَعْدُ وَاللَّهِ مَا مِنْ نَسَبٍ وَلَا سَبَبٍ وَلَا صِهْرٍ أَحَبُّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ سَبَبِكُمْ وَصِهْرِكُمْ وَلَكِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ ”فَاطِمَةُ مُضْغَةٌ مِنِّي يَقْبِضُنِي مَا قَبَضَهَا وَيَبْسُطُنِي مَا بَسَطَهَا وَإِنَّ الْأَنْسَابَ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ تَنْقَطِعُ غَيْرَ نَسَبِي وَسَبَبِي وَصِهْرِي“ وَعِنْدَكَ ابْنَتُهَا وَلَوْ زَوَّجْتُكَ لَقَبَضَهَا ذَلِكَ قَالَ فَانْطَلَقَ عَاذِرًا لَهُ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Miswar bin Makhrama (may Allah be pleased with him) that Hasan bin Hasan asked him for the hand of his daughter in marriage. In response, he sent this message: "Hasan bin Hasan, meet me yourself tonight." When they met, Sayyiduna Miswar (may Allah be pleased with him) first praised and glorified Allah, and then said: "By Allah! There is nothing dearer to me than your kinship and becoming my son-in-law, but the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) is a piece of my heart; whatever grieves her grieves me, and whatever pleases her pleases me. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: All relationships, kinships, and ties of marriage except my relationship, kinship, and ties of marriage will be severed on the Day of Resurrection. You already have a daughter of hers (i.e., Sayyida Fatimah, may Allah be pleased with her) in your marriage. If I marry my daughter to you, it will hurt her heart." Thus, he excused himself to them regarding this matter, and they left understanding his excuse.
