It is narrated from Sayyida Aisha bint Qudama (may Allah be pleased with her), she says: I was with my mother, Sayyida Ra’ita bint Sufyan Khuzaiyya (may Allah be pleased with her), when the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) was taking the pledge of allegiance from women, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) was saying: I take the pledge from you that you will not associate anything with Allah, you will not steal, you will not commit adultery, you will not kill your children, you will not slander, and you will not disobey in goodness. When the women heard these things, they bowed their heads, so the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to them: Say that it is fine, your pledge is only to the extent of what you are able. So they began to say, “Yes,” and I was also saying it with them. Then my mother instructed me and said: My dear daughter! Say this as well: as much as I am able.
Hadith Referenceالفتح الربانی / أهم أحداث السنة الثامنة للهجرة / 10895
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:صحیح
Hadith Takhrij«صحيح لغيره، أخرجه الطبراني في المعجم الكبير : 24/ 857 ، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 27062 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 27602»
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … Since it is forbidden to touch a non-mahram woman, therefore the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, at the time of taking the pledge (bay‘ah) from women, would not place his hand upon their hands, but would take the pledge verbally.
When the female Companions (sahabiyyat) would claim absolute adherence to the matters mentioned in the verse, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would prompt them that one should pledge according to one’s ability and capacity, so that if, due to some necessity or valid Shar‘i excuse, any clause has to be broken, the agreement of the pledge remains intact.