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الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
كتاب المدح والدمBook of Praise and Blame
بَابُ مَا جَاءَ فِي الْتَرْهِيْبِ مِنْ سَبِّ الْمُسْلِمِ وَقِتَالِهِ وَأَنَّ إِثْمَ ذَلِكَ عَلَى الْبَادِيءِ مَالَمْ يَعْتَدِ الْمَظْلُومُChapter: What has been reported regarding the warning against insulting or fighting a Muslim, and that the sin is upon the initiator unless the oppressed transgresses
Hadith 10130
اُردوEn
عَنْ عِيَاضِ بْنِ حِمَارٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ رَجُلٌ مِنْ قَوْمِي يَشْتُمُنِي وَهُوَ دُونِي عَلَيَّ بَأْسٌ أَنْ أَنْتَصِرَ مِنْهُ قَالَ الْمُسْتَبَّانِ شَيْطَانَانِ يَتَهَاذَيَانِ وَيَتَكَاذَبَانِ (وَفِي لَفْظٍ) يَتَكَاذَبَانِ وَيَتَهَاتَرَانِ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Iyad bin Hamar (may Allah be pleased with him), he says: I said, "O Messenger of Allah! A man from my tribe abuses me, while he is a person of lower status than me. Now, if I take revenge on him, will there be any blame on me?" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two people who abuse each other are both devils; they speak obscenely and lie." In another narration: "They lie and accuse each other."
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … Quarreling is such a satanic matter that it keeps escalating; one person insults someone’s sister, the other retorts by insulting his mother; one slaps, the other throws a stone; one says two harsh words, the other responds with four; the quarrel does not come to a halt. The beginnings of murder and major transgressions such as grave injustices originate from quarrels.
