It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Shikhkhir (may Allah be pleased with him) that he, along with some companions from Banu Amir, came to the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and described the incident as follows: So we went to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: You are our friend, you are our leader, you are very kind and gracious to us, you excel us in virtue, and you are very generous. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Speak with purpose; never let Satan ensnare you in his trap.
Hadith Referenceالفتح الربانی / كتاب المدح والدم / 10030
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:صحیح
Hadith Takhrij«اسناده صحيح علي شرط مسلم، أخرجه مختصرا ابوداود: 4806 ، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 16311 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 16420»
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … The qualities that have been described of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was characterized by them to the highest degree. However, he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did not desire that praise be made in his presence.
The Arabs used to call a chief who was extremely generous in feeding others "jafnah," which literally means "tub," and "gharra'" means "white." By this is meant that the tub is filled with fat and oil. We have translated these words according to their intended meaning.