الادب المفرد

Al-Adab al-Mufrad

كتاب الغضب

Book of Anger

بَابُ مَا يَقُولُ إِذَا غَضِبَ

What to say when angry

2 hadith
Hadith 1319
حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ، قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو أُسَامَةَ قَالَ‏:‏ سَمِعْتُ الأَعْمَشَ يَقُولُ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا عَدِيُّ بْنُ ثَابِتٍ، عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ صُرَدٍ قَالَ‏:‏ اسْتَبَّ رَجُلاَنِ عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَجَعَلَ أَحَدُهُمَا يَغْضَبُ، وَيَحْمَرُّ وَجْهُهُ، فَنَظَرَ إِلَيْهِ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ‏: ”إِنِّي لَأَعْلَمُ كَلِمَةً لَوْ قَالَهَا لَذَهَبَ هَذَا عَنْهُ‏:‏ أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ“، فَقَامَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى ذَاكَ الرَّجُلِ فَقَالَ‏:‏ تَدْرِي مَا قَالَ‏؟‏ قَالَ‏:‏ ”قُلْ‏:‏ أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ“، فَقَالَ الرَّجُلُ‏:‏ أَمَجْنُونًا تَرَانِي‏؟‏‏.‏
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Sulaiman bin Surad (may Allah be pleased with him), he said that two men abused each other in the presence of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), so one of them became so angry that his face turned red. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) looked at him and said: "Indeed, I know a word that if this person says it, his anger will cool down (that word is) «أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ»." So a man got up and went to that person and said: Do you know what the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said? He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "You should recite «أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ»." That man said: Do you think I am mad?
Hadith Reference الادب المفرد / كتاب الغضب / 1319
Hadith Grading الألبانی: صحيح
Hadith Takhrij «صحيح : أخرجه البخاري، كتاب الأدب : 6048 و مسلم : 2610»
Hadith 1319M
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ قِرَاءَةً، عَنْ أَبِي حَمْزَةَ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنِ ابْنِ ثَابِتٍ، عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ صُرَدٍ قَالَ‏:‏ كُنْتُ جَالِسًا مَعَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَرَجُلاَنِ يَسْتَبَّانِ، فَأَحَدُهُمَا احْمَرَّ وَجْهُهُ، وَانْتَفَخَتْ أَوْدَاجُهُ، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ‏: ”إِنِّي لَأَعْلَمُ كَلِمَةً لَوْ قَالَهَا لَذَهَبَ عَنْهُ مَا يَجِدُ“، فَقَالُوا لَهُ‏:‏ إِنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ‏: ”تَعَوَّذْ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ“، قَالَ‏:‏ وَهَلْ بِي مِنْ جُنُونٍ‏؟‏‏.‏
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Sulaiman bin Surad (may Allah be pleased with him), he said: I was sitting with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and two men were insulting each other. One of them's face turned red and his veins swelled. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Indeed, I know a word, if this person were to say it, all his anger would go away." So the people told him that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Seek refuge with Allah from the accursed devil." He said: Am I mad?
Hadith Reference الادب المفرد / كتاب الغضب / 1319M
Hadith Grading الألبانی: صحيح
Hadith Takhrij «صحيح : أخرجه البخاري ، كتاب بدء الخلق : 3282 و مسلم : 2610 و أبوداؤد : 4781»