الادب المفرد
Al-Adab al-Mufrad
كتاب الاستئذانBook of Asking Permission
بَابُ يَسْتَأْذِنُ عَلَى أُمِّهِ
Chapter: Asking permission to enter mother's room
Hadith 1059
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، عَنْ عَلْقَمَةَ قَالَ: جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى عَبْدِ اللهِ قَالَ: أَسْتَأْذِنُ عَلَى أُمِّي؟ فَقَالَ: مَا عَلَى كُلِّ أَحْيَانِهَا تُحِبُّ أَنْ تَرَاهَا.
It is narrated from Alqamah (may Allah have mercy on him) that a man came to Sayyiduna Ibn Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) and said: Should I seek permission from my mother before entering her house? Sayyiduna Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) replied: You do not like to see her at all times (and in every condition).
Hadith 1060
حَدَّثَنَا آدَمُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ مُسْلِمَ بْنَ نَذِيرٍ يَقُولُ: سَأَلَ رَجُلٌ حُذَيْفَةَ فَقَالَ: أَسْتَأْذِنُ عَلَى أُمِّي؟ فَقَالَ: إِنْ لَمْ تَسْتَأْذِنْ عَلَيْهَا رَأَيْتَ مَا تَكْرَهُ.
It is narrated from Muslim bin Nazeer (may Allah have mercy on him), he says that a man asked Sayyiduna Hudhaifah (may Allah be pleased with him): Should I seek permission to go to my mother? He replied: If you do not seek permission to go to her, you may see her in a state in which you would dislike to see her.
