الادب المفرد
Al-Adab al-Mufrad
كتابBook of Gentleness in Matters
بَابُ التُّؤَدَةِ فِي الأمُورِ
Chapter: Deliberation in Matters
Hadith 888
حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا سَعْدُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ الأَنْصَارِيُّ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنْ بَلِيٍّ قَالَ: أَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَعَ أَبِي، فَنَاجَى أَبِي دُونِي، قَالَ: فَقُلْتُ لأَبِي: مَا قَالَ لَكَ؟ قَالَ: ”إِذَا أَرَدْتَ أَمْرًا فَعَلَيْكَ بِالتُّؤَدَةِ حَتَّى يُرِيَكَ اللَّهُ مِنْهُ الْمَخْرَجَ، أَوْ حَتَّى يَجْعَلَ اللَّهُ لَكَ مَخْرَجًا.“
It is narrated from a companion of the Baliy tribe (may Allah be pleased with him) that I went with my father to the service of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) left me aside and whispered to my father. He says that I asked my father: What did the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) whisper to you? He said that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "When you intend to do something, do it with seriousness and dignity, until Allah Almighty shows you a way out of that matter." Or he said: "Allah Almighty will make a way out for you."
Hadith 889
وَعَنِ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو الْفُقَيْمِيِّ، عَنْ مُنْذِرٍ الثَّوْرِيِّ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ ابْنِ الْحَنَفِيَّةِ قَالَ: لَيْسَ بِحَكِيمٍ مَنْ لاَ يُعَاشِرُ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ مَنْ لاَ يَجِدُ مِنْ مُعَاشَرَتِهِ بُدًّا، حَتَّى يَجْعَلَ اللَّهُ لَهُ فَرَجًا أَوْ مَخْرَجًا.
It is narrated from Muhammad ibn al-Hanafiyyah, may Allah have mercy on him, that he said: A person who cannot avoid mixing with certain people, and does not behave well with them, is not wise or intelligent. He should continue to get along with those whom it is necessary to live with, until Allah provides a way out for him.
