الادب المفرد
Al-Adab al-Mufrad
كتابBook of a Man’s Work in His House
بَابُ إِذَا أَحَبَّ رَجُلًا فَلَا يُمَارِهِ وَلَا يَسْأَلُ عَنْهُ
Chapter: If You Love Someone, Do Not Argue or Inquire Excessively
Hadith 545
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ صَالِحٍ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي مُعَاوِيَةُ، أَنَّ أَبَا الزَّاهِرِيَّةِ حَدَّثَهُ، عَنْ جُبَيْرِ بْنِ نُفَيْرٍ، عَنْ مُعَاذِ بْنِ جَبَلٍ أَنَّهُ قَالَ: إِذَا أَحْبَبْتَ أَخًا فَلاَ تُمَارِهِ، وَلاَ تُشَارِّهِ، وَلاَ تَسْأَلْ عَنْهُ، فَعَسَى أَنْ تُوَافِيَ لَهُ عَدُوًّا فَيُخْبِرَكَ بِمَا لَيْسَ فِيهِ، فَيُفَرِّقَ بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَهُ.
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Mu'adh bin Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him), he said: When you love your brother, never quarrel with him, nor treat him badly, nor ask anyone about him. It may happen that you meet one of his enemies, and he tells you something about him which is not true, and thus he creates separation between you.
Hadith 546
حَدَّثَنَا الْمُقْرِئُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ يَزِيدَ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: ”مَنْ أَحَبَّ أَخًا لِلَّهِ، فِي اللهِ، قَالَ: إِنِّي أُحِبُّكَ لِلَّهِ، فَدَخَلاَ جَمِيعًا الْجَنَّةَ، كَانَ الَّذِي أَحَبَّ فِي اللهِ أَرْفَعَ دَرَجَةً لِحُبِّهِ، عَلَى الَّذِي أَحَبَّهُ لَهُ.“
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Amr (may Allah be pleased with them both) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Whoever loves any of his religious brothers for the sake of Allah and says, 'I love you for the sake of Allah,' then both of them will enter Paradise together. The person who loved solely for the sake of Allah will have a higher rank than the one who loved him because of that love."
