الادب المفرد
Al-Adab al-Mufrad
كتاب الوالدينBook of Parents
بَابُ بِرِّ الْوَالِدِ الْمُشْرِكِ
Chapter: Dutifulness to a Polytheist Parent
Hadith 24
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا إِسْرَائِيلُ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا سِمَاكٌ، عَنْ مُصْعَبِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ سَعْدِ بْنِ أَبِي وَقَّاصٍ قَالَ: نَزَلَتْ فِيَّ أَرْبَعُ آيَاتٍ مِنْ كِتَابِ اللهِ تَعَالَى: كَانَتْ أُمِّي حَلَفَتْ أَنْ لاَ تَأْكُلَ وَلاَ تَشْرَبَ حَتَّى أُفَارِقَ مُحَمَّدًا صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَأَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ: ﴿وَإِنْ جَاهَدَاكَ عَلَى أَنْ تُشْرِكَ بِي مَا لَيْسَ لَكَ بِهِ عِلْمٌ فَلاَ تُطُعْهُمَا وَصَاحِبْهُمَا فِي الدُّنْيَا مَعْرُوفًا﴾ [لقمان: 15]. وَالثَّانِيَةُ: أَنِّي كُنْتُ أَخَذْتُ سَيْفًا أَعْجَبَنِي، فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، هَبْ لِي هَذَا، فَنَزَلَتْ: ﴿يَسْأَلُونَكَ عَنِ الأَنْفَالِ﴾ [الأنفال: 1]. وَالثَّالِثَةُ: أَنِّي مَرِضْتُ فَأَتَانِي رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، إِنِّي أُرِيدُ أَنْ أَقْسِمَ مَالِي، أَفَأُوصِي بِالنِّصْفِ؟ فَقَالَ: ”لَا“، فَقُلْتُ: الثُّلُثُ؟ فَسَكَتَ، فَكَانَ الثُّلُثُ بَعْدَهُ جَائِزًا. وَالرَّابِعَةُ: إِنِّي شَرِبْتُ الْخَمْرَ مَعَ قَوْمٍ مِنَ الأَنْصَارِ، فَضَرَبَ رَجُلٌ مِنْهُمْ أَنْفِي بِلَحْيِ جَمَلٍ، فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَأَنْزَلَ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ تَحْرِيمَ الْخَمْرِ.
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Sa’d bin Abi Waqqas (may Allah be pleased with him), he said: Four verses of the Qur’an were revealed about me. My mother (who had not accepted Islam) swore that she would neither eat nor drink until I (Sa’d) left the company of Muhammad (peace be upon him). Upon this, Allah Almighty revealed the verse: «وَإِنْ جَاهَدَاكَ عَلَى أَنْ تُشْرِكَ بِي مَا لَيْسَ لَكَ بِهِ عِلْمٌ فَلَا تُطِعْهُمَا وَصَاحِبْهُمَا فِي الدُّنْيَا مَعْرُوفًا» [سورہ لقمان: 15] “If they both strive to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, then do not obey them, but accompany them in this world with kindness.” (From the spoils of war) I liked a sword, so I took hold of it and said to the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him): O Messenger of Allah! Grant this to me. Then this verse was revealed: «يَسْأَلُونَكَ عَنِ الْأَنْفَالِ» [سورہ الأنفال: 1] “They ask you about the spoils of war.” I fell ill, so the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) came to me (to visit me), and I said: O Messenger of Allah! I want to distribute my wealth, should I bequeath half of my wealth? He (peace be upon him) said: “No.” I said: Should I bequeath a third? The Prophet (peace be upon him) remained silent, and after that, bequeathing a third became permissible. I drank wine with a group of the Ansar, and one of them struck my nose with a camel’s jawbone. I came to the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him), so Allah Almighty revealed the prohibition of wine.
Hadith 25
حَدَّثَنَا الْحُمَيْدِيُّ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي أَبِي قَالَ: أَخْبَرَتْنِي أَسْمَاءُ بِنْتُ أَبِي بَكْرٍ قَالَتْ: أَتَتْنِي أُمِّي رَاغِبَةً، فِي عَهْدِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَسَأَلْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: أَصِلُهَا؟ قَالَ: ”نَعَمْ.“ قَالَ ابْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ: فَأَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ فِيهَا: ﴿لاَ يَنْهَاكُمُ اللَّهُ عَنِ الَّذِينَ لَمْ يُقَاتِلُوكُمْ فِي الدِّينِ﴾ [الممتحنة: 8].
Narrated from Sayyidah Asma bint Abi Bakr (may Allah be pleased with her) that during the treaty of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) with the polytheists of Makkah, my mother (who was still upon her polytheistic beliefs) came to me desiring (to maintain) family ties, so I asked the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), "Should I maintain family ties with her?" He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Yes." Ibn Uyaynah says: Regarding this, Allah the Exalted revealed this verse: «لَا يَنْهَاكُمُ اللَّهُ عَنِ الَّذِينَ لَمْ يُقَاتِلُوكُمْ فِي الدِّينِ» [سورہ الممتحنہ: 8] "Allah does not forbid you from those who do not fight you because of religion..."
Hadith 26
حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْعَزِيزِ بْنُ مُسْلِمٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ دِينَارٍ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ ابْنَ عُمَرَ يَقُولُ: رَأَى عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ حُلَّةً سِيَرَاءَ تُبَاعُ فَقَالَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، ابْتَعْ هَذِهِ، فَالْبَسْهَا يَوْمَ الْجُمُعَةِ، وَإِذَا جَاءَكَ الْوُفُودُ، قَالَ: ”إِنَّمَا يَلْبَسُ هَذِهِ مَنْ لاَ خَلاَقَ لَهُ“، فَأُتِيَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مِنْهَا بِحُلَلٍ، فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَى عُمَرَ بِحُلَّةٍ، فَقَالَ: كَيْفَ أَلْبَسُهَا وَقَدْ قُلْتَ فِيهَا مَا قُلْتَ؟ قَالَ: ”إِنِّي لَمْ أُعْطِكَهَا لِتَلْبَسَهَا، وَلَكِنْ تَبِيعَهَا أَوْ تَكْسُوَهَا“، فَأَرْسَلَ بِهَا عُمَرُ إِلَى أَخٍ لَهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ مَكَّةَ قَبْلَ أَنْ يُسْلِمَ.
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both), he says that Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) saw a silk garment called Sira’ being sold and said: O Messenger of Allah! Buy this garment and wear it on Fridays, and also when delegations come to you (from other regions). The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Only the one who has no share (in the Hereafter) wears such (a garment).” Later, similar garments came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and he sent one of the silk garments to Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him). He said: How can I wear this (silk garment) when you have already said this about it? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Indeed, I did not give it to you so that you wear it, but (rather) so that you may sell it or let someone else wear it.” Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) sent that (garment) to one of his brothers, who had not yet become Muslim, in Makkah.
