الادب المفرد
Al-Adab al-Mufrad
كتاب الوالدينBook of Parents
بَابُ عُقُوقِ الْوَالِدَيْنِ
Chapter: Disobedience to Parents
Hadith 15
حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا الْجُرَيْرِيُّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: ”أَلاَ أُنَبِّئُكُمْ بِأَكْبَرِ الْكَبَائِرِ؟“ ثَلاَثًا، قَالُوا: بَلَى يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، قَالَ: ”الإِشْرَاكُ بِاللَّهِ، وَعُقُوقُ الْوَالِدَيْنِ وَجَلَسَ وَكَانَ مُتَّكِئًا أَلاَ وَقَوْلُ الزُّورِ“، مَا زَالَ يُكَرِّرُهَا حَتَّى قُلْتُ: لَيْتَهُ سَكَتَ.
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Bakrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Shall I not inform you about the greatest of sins?" He said this three times. They said: O Messenger of Allah! Please do tell us. He (peace be upon him) said: "Associating partners with Allah and disobedience to parents." The Prophet (peace be upon him) was reclining, then he sat up straight and said: "Beware! (Also) false speech!" He (peace be upon him) kept repeating this so much that I thought (in my heart): I wish he would stop.
Hadith 16
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَلاَمٍ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا جَرِيرٌ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ بْنِ عُمَيْرٍ، عَنْ وَرَّادٍ، كَاتِبِ الْمُغِيرَةِ بْنِ شُعْبَةَ، قَالَ: كَتَبَ مُعَاوِيَةُ إِلَى الْمُغِيرَةِ: اكْتُبْ إِلَيَّ بِمَا سَمِعْتَ مِنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ. قَالَ وَرَّادٌ: فَأَمْلَى عَلَيَّ وَكَتَبْتُ بِيَدَيَّ: إِنِّي سَمِعْتُهُ يَنْهَى عَنْ كَثْرَةِ السُّؤَالِ، وَإِضَاعَةِ الْمَالِ، وَعَنْ قِيلَ وَقَالَ.
Warrad says that Sayyiduna Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) wrote to Sayyiduna Mughirah bin Shu'bah (may Allah be pleased with him) asking him to write down for him any saying of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). So he dictated to me, and I wrote with my own hand: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) forbidding excessive questioning, wasting wealth, and idle talk.
