حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ حُجْرٍ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ ، عَنِ الأَجْلَحِ ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي الْهُذَيْلِ ، قَالَ : دَخَلَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مَسْعُودٍ عَلَى مَرِيضٍ يَعُودُهُ ، وَمَعَهُ قَوْمٌ ، وَفِي الْبَيْتِ امْرَأَةٌ ، فَجَعَلَ رَجُلٌ مِنَ الْقَوْمِ يَنْظُرُ إِلَى الْمَرْأَةِ ، فَقَالَ لَهُ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ : لَوِ انْفَقَأَتْ عَيْنُكَ كَانَ خَيْرًا لَكَ .
It is narrated from Abdullah bin Abi Huzail (may Allah have mercy on him), he said that Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) went to visit a sick person, and other people were with him. There was also a woman in the house, and one of the men began to look at her. Sayyiduna Ibn Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) said to him: If your eye had burst and perished, that would have been better for you than this act of looking.
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Maulana Usman Muneeb
Benefits and Issues:
The etiquette of going to someone’s house is that one should keep one’s gaze lowered so as to avoid falling into sin, especially if it is a house where the lady of the house may also be present; in such a case, one should guard one’s eyes. Furthermore, scholars should, upon witnessing people’s mistakes, continue to correct and reform them.
Source: Fadlullah al-Ahad: Urdu Commentary on al-Adab al-Mufrad, Page: 531