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الادب المفرد
Adab al-Mufrad
كتابBook of Migration
بَابُ هِجْرَةِ الْمُسْلِمِChapter: Migration of a Muslim
Hadith 403
اُردوEn
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَلاَمٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدَةُ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: ”إِنِّي لَأَعْرِفُ غَضَبَكِ وَرِضَاكِ“، قَالَتْ: قُلْتُ: وَكَيْفَ تَعْرِفُ ذَلِكَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ؟ قَالَ: ”إِنَّكِ إِذَا كُنْتِ رَاضِيَةً قُلْتِ: بَلَى، وَرَبِّ مُحَمَّدٍ، وَإِذَا كُنْتِ سَاخِطَةً قُلْتِ: لاَ، وَرَبِّ إِبْرَاهِيمَ“، قَالَتْ: قُلْتُ: أَجَلْ، لَسْتُ أُهَاجِرُ إِلا اسْمَكَ.
Narrated from Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I recognize your anger and your pleasure." She said: I asked, "O Messenger of Allah! How do you know?" He (peace be upon him) said: "When you are pleased, you say: 'Yes! By the Lord of Muhammad.' And when you are angry, you say: 'No! By the Lord of Ibrahim.'" She said: I replied, "That is true, but I only leave out your name."
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Maulana Usman Muneeb
Benefits and Issues:
➊ The anger of Aisha (radi Allahu anha) in this instance is from the type of jealousy in women for which they have been excused. Otherwise, Aisha (radi Allahu anha) would not become angry out of hatred, because that is a grave sin. She herself clarified this by saying that, O Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam), I only stop mentioning your name, but your love remains firmly rooted in my heart.
➋ A husband should be aware of his wife's psychology and should continuously observe the changes and fluctuations in her behavior, and he should deal with her accordingly.
➊ The anger of Aisha (radi Allahu anha) in this instance is from the type of jealousy in women for which they have been excused. Otherwise, Aisha (radi Allahu anha) would not become angry out of hatred, because that is a grave sin. She herself clarified this by saying that, O Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam), I only stop mentioning your name, but your love remains firmly rooted in my heart.
➋ A husband should be aware of his wife's psychology and should continuously observe the changes and fluctuations in her behavior, and he should deal with her accordingly.
Source: Fadlullah al-Ahad: Urdu Commentary on al-Adab al-Mufrad, Page: 403
