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الادب المفرد
Adab al-Mufrad
كتاب الوالدينBook of Parents
بَابُ لاَ يَسُبُّ وَالِدَيْهِChapter: Not Abusing One's Parents
Hadith 28
اُردوEn
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَلاَمٍ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا مَخْلَدٌ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ الْحَارِثِ بْنِ سُفْيَانَ يَزْعُمُ، أَنَّ عُرْوَةَ بْنَ عِيَاضٍ أَخْبَرَهُ، أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ عَبْدَ اللهِ بْنَ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْعَاصِ يَقُولُ: مِنَ الْكَبَائِرِ عِنْدَ اللهِ تَعَالَى أَنْ يَسْتَسِبَّ الرَّجُلُ لِوَالِدِهِ.
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Amr bin Al-Aas (may Allah be pleased with him), he says: Among the major sins in the sight of Allah Almighty is that a person becomes the cause for his parents to be cursed.
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Maulana Usman Muneeb
Benefits and Issues:
➊ Shaykh al-Albani rahimahullah states that in the saying of Sayyiduna Amr ibn al-As radi Allahu anhu, the phrase (inda Allah) "with Allah" means that generally, when a person abuses another, he considers it insignificant, because most of the time he is responding to some misconduct or, in his view, he is oppressed. However, with Allah, this is not insignificant. Sayyiduna Amr ibn al-As radi Allahu anhu has explained that this is a major sin (kabirah).
➋ Becoming the cause for one's parents to be abused is itself equivalent to abusing them.
➌ Implicitly, this also includes that if a person compels his parents to do something for which people abuse them, or he himself does something because of which people speak ill of him and his parents, for example: urinating on the road, etc.
➊ Shaykh al-Albani rahimahullah states that in the saying of Sayyiduna Amr ibn al-As radi Allahu anhu, the phrase (inda Allah) "with Allah" means that generally, when a person abuses another, he considers it insignificant, because most of the time he is responding to some misconduct or, in his view, he is oppressed. However, with Allah, this is not insignificant. Sayyiduna Amr ibn al-As radi Allahu anhu has explained that this is a major sin (kabirah).
➋ Becoming the cause for one's parents to be abused is itself equivalent to abusing them.
➌ Implicitly, this also includes that if a person compels his parents to do something for which people abuse them, or he himself does something because of which people speak ill of him and his parents, for example: urinating on the road, etc.
Source: Fadlullah al-Ahad: Urdu Commentary on al-Adab al-Mufrad, Page: 28
