It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Umamah (may Allah be pleased with him), he says: Verily, Satan comes to the bed of any one of you when his family lays it out and prepares it, and he throws a stick, a stone, or something upon it so that he becomes angry with his family. When any one of you sees such a thing, he should not be angry with his family. He said: Because this is the work of Satan.
Hadith Referenceالادب المفرد / كتاب / 1191
Hadith Gradingالألبانی:حسن
Hadith Takhrij«حسن : أخرجه الخرائطي فى مساوي الأخلاق : 310 و قد صح مرفوعًا عن أبى هريرة نحوه برقم : 1217»
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Maulana Usman Muneeb
Benefits and Issues: From this, it is understood that most disputes have no real basis; rather, such situations arise only due to the cunning of Shaytan. Therefore, one should seek Allah’s protection and frequently engage in remembrance (adhkar).
Source: Fadlullah al-Ahad: Urdu Commentary on al-Adab al-Mufrad, Page: 1191