Hadith 1060

حَدَّثَنَا آدَمُ، قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ قَالَ‏:‏ سَمِعْتُ مُسْلِمَ بْنَ نَذِيرٍ يَقُولُ‏:‏ سَأَلَ رَجُلٌ حُذَيْفَةَ فَقَالَ‏:‏ أَسْتَأْذِنُ عَلَى أُمِّي‏؟‏ فَقَالَ‏:‏ إِنْ لَمْ تَسْتَأْذِنْ عَلَيْهَا رَأَيْتَ مَا تَكْرَهُ‏.‏
It is narrated from Muslim bin Nazeer (may Allah have mercy on him), he says that a man asked Sayyiduna Hudhaifah (may Allah be pleased with him): Should I seek permission to go to my mother? He replied: If you do not seek permission to go to her, you may see her in a state in which you would dislike to see her.
Hadith Reference الادب المفرد / كتاب الاستئذان / 1060
Hadith Grading الألبانی: حسن
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