الادب المفرد
Al-Adab al-Mufrad
كتاب السلامBook of Greeting (Salam)
بَابُ التَّسْلِيمِ عَلَى النِّسَاءِChapter: Greeting women
Hadith 1048
حَدَّثَنَا مَخْلَدٌ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا مُبَشِّرُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي غَنِيَّةَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مُهَاجِرٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ ابْنَةِ يَزِيدَ الأَنْصَارِيَّةِ، مَرَّ بِيَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَأَنَا فِي جِوَارِ أَتْرَابٍ لِي، فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْنَا وَقَالَ: ”إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَ الْمُنْعِمِينَ“، وَكُنْتُ مِنْ أَجْرَئِهِنَّ عَلَى مَسْأَلَتِهِ، فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، وَمَا كُفْرُ الْمُنْعِمِينَ؟ قَالَ: ”لَعَلَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَطُولُ أَيْمَتُهَا مِنْ أَبَوَيْهَا، ثُمَّ يَرْزُقُهَا اللَّهُ زَوْجًا، وَيَرْزُقُهَا مِنْهُ وَلَدًا، فَتَغْضَبُ الْغَضْبَةَ فَتَكْفُرُ فَتَقُولُ: مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْرًا قَطُّ.“
Narrated from Sayyida Asma bint Yazid Ansariyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) passed by me while I was sitting with my peers. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) greeted us with salam and said: "Beware of being ungrateful to those who show you favor and honor." Among them, I was the boldest in asking questions. I said: O Messenger of Allah! What is ingratitude to the benefactors? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It is when one of you remains unmarried for a long time between her parents, then Allah gives her a husband and grants her children from him, then she becomes angry and, being ungrateful, says: I have never seen any good in you."
