الادب المفرد
Al-Adab al-Mufrad
كتاب السلامBook of Greeting (Salam)
بَابُ مَنْ تَرَكَ السَّلامَ عَلَى الْمُتَخَلِّقِ وَأَصْحَابِ الْمَعَاصِيChapter: Not greeting the immoral and sinners
Hadith 1022
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ صَالِحٍ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي اللَّيْثُ، عَنْ عَمْرٍو هُوَ ابْنُ الْحَارِثِ، عَنْ بَكْرِ بْنِ سَوَادَةَ، عَنْ أَبِي النَّجِيبِ، عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ قَالَ: أَقْبَلَ رَجُلٌ مِنَ الْبَحْرَيْنِ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِ، فَلَمْ يَرُدَّ - وَفِي يَدِهِ خَاتَمٌ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ، وَعَلَيْهِ جُبَّةُ حَرِيرٍ - فَانْطَلَقَ الرَّجُلُ مَحْزُونًا، فَشَكَا إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ، فَقَالَتْ: لَعَلَّ بِرَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَجِبَّتَكَ وَخَاتَمَكَ، فَأَلْقِهِمَا ثُمَّ عُدْ، فَفَعَلَ، فَرَدَّ السَّلاَمَ، فَقَالَ: جِئْتُكَ آنِفًا فَأَعْرَضْتَ عَنِّي؟ قَالَ: ”كَانَ فِي يَدِكَ جَمْرٌ مِنْ نَارٍ“، فَقَالَ: لَقَدْ جِئْتُ إِذًا بِجَمْرٍ كَثِيرٍ، قَالَ: ”إِنَّ مَا جِئْتَ بِهِ لَيْسَ بِأَجْزَأَ عَنَّا مِنْ حِجَارَةِ الْحَرَّةِ، وَلَكِنَّهُ مَتَاعُ الْحَيَاةِ الدُّنْيَا“، قَالَ: فَبِمَاذَا أَتَخَتَّمُ بِهِ؟ قَالَ: ”بِحَلْقَةٍ مِنْ وَرِقٍ، أَوْ صُفْرٍ، أَوْ حَدِيدٍ.“
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) that a man from Bahrain came to the service of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and greeted him with salam, but the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) did not reply to his salam. This was because he had a gold ring on his hand and was wearing a silk cloak. The man left in distress and went to his wife and told her. She said: Perhaps the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was displeased with you because of your cloak and ring, so take them off and go back. He did so, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) replied to his salam. He said: I just came before and you turned away from me? The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "There was a burning coal in your hand." He said: Then I have brought many coals. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "What you have brought (here) is of no more value to anyone than the stones of a stony land. But it is a provision of worldly life." He said: Then what kind of ring should I wear? The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Wear a ring of silver, brass, or iron."
