سنن ابي داود
Sunan Abi Dawud
كتاب الأيمان والنذور
Oaths and Vows (Kitab Al-Aiman Wa Al-Nudhur)
باب الْيَمِينِ فِي قَطِيعَةِ الرَّحِمِ
Chapter: An Oath To Sever Ties Of Kinship.
Hadith 3272
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْمِنْهَالِ ، حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ زُرَيْعٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا حَبِيبٌ الْمُعَلِّمُ ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ ، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْمُسَيِّبِ : أَنَّ أَخَوَيْنِ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ كَانَ بَيْنَهُمَا مِيرَاثٌ ، فَسَأَلَ أَحَدُهُمَا صَاحِبَهُ الْقِسْمَةَ ، فَقَالَ : إِنْ عُدْتَ تَسْأَلُنِي عَنِ الْقِسْمَةِ ، فَكُلُّ مَالٍ لِي فِي رِتَاجِ الْكَعْبَةِ ، فَقَالَ لَهُ عُمَرُ : إِنَّ الْكَعْبَةَ غَنِيَّةٌ عَنْ مَالِكَ ، كَفِّرْ عَنْ يَمِينِكَ ، وَكَلِّمْ أَخَاكَ ، سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، يَقُولُ : لَا يَمِينَ عَلَيْكَ ، وَلَا نَذْرَ فِي مَعْصِيَةِ الرَّبِّ ، وَفِي قَطِيعَةِ الرَّحِمِ ، وَفِيمَا لَا تَمْلِكُ " .
Saeed ibn al-Musayyab said: There were two brothers among the Ansar who shared an inheritance. When one of them asked the other for the portion due to him, he replied: If you ask me again for the portion due to you, all my property will be devoted to the decoration of the Kabah. Umar said to him: The Kabah does not need your property. Make atonement for your oath and speak to your brother. I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say: An oath or vow to disobey the Lord, or to break ties of relationship or about something over which one has no control is not binding on you.
Hadith 3273
حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَبْدَةَ الضَّبِّيُّ ، حَدَّثَنَا الْمُغِيرَةُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ : أَنّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، قَالَ : " لَا نَذْرَ إِلَّا فِيمَا يُبْتَغَى بِهِ وَجْهُ اللَّهِ ، وَلَا يَمِينَ فِي قَطِيعَةِ رَحِمٍ " .
Narrated Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-As: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: A vow is binding in those things by which the pleasure of Allah is sought, and an oath to break ties of relationship is not binding.
Hadith 3274
حَدَّثَنَا الْمُنْذِرُ بْنُ الْوَلِيدِ ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ بَكْرٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الْأَخْنَسِ ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ ، قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " لَا نَذْرَ وَلَا يَمِينَ فِيمَا لَا يَمْلِكُ ابْنُ آدَمَ ، وَلَا فِي مَعْصِيَةِ اللَّهِ ، وَلَا فِي قَطِيعَةِ رَحِمٍ ، وَمَنْ حَلَفَ عَلَى يَمِينٍ فَرَأَى غَيْرَهَا خَيْرًا مِنْهَا ، فَلْيَدَعْهَا وَلْيَأْتِ الَّذِي هُوَ خَيْرٌ ، فَإِنَّ تَرْكَهَا كَفَّارَتُهَا " ، قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُد : الْأَحَادِيثُ كُلُّهَا عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، وَلْيُكَفِّرْ عَنْ يَمِينِهِ إِلَّا فِيمَا لَا يُعْبَأُ بِهِ ، قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُد : قُلْتُ لِأَحْمَدَ : رَوَى يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ ، فَقَالَ : تَرَكَهُ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ ، وَكَانَ أَهْلًا لِذَلِكَ ، قَالَ أَحْمَدُ : أَحَادِيثُهُ مَنَاكِيرُ ، وَأَبُوهُ لَا يُعْرَفُ .
Narrated Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-As: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: An oath or a vow about something over which a human being has no control, and to disobey Allah, and to break ties of relationship is not binding. If anyone takes an oath and then considers something else better than it, he should give it up, and do what is better, for leaving it is its atonement. Abu Dawud said: All sound traditions from the Prophet ﷺ say: "He should make atonement for his oath, " except those versions which are not reliable. Abu Dawud said: I said to Ahmad: Yahya bin Saeed (al-Qattan) has transmitted this tradition from Yahya bin Ubaid Allah. He (Ahmad bin Hanbal) said: But he gave it up after that, and he was competent for doing it. Ahmad said: His (Yahya bin Ubaid Allah's) tradition are munkar (rejected) and his father is not known.
