سنن ابي داود
Sunan Abi Dawud
كتاب النكاح
Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah)
باب فِي إِتْيَانِ الْحَائِضِ وَمُبَاشَرَتِهَا
Chapter: Regarding Menstruating Women And Embracing Them.
Hadith 2165
حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ ، أَخْبَرَنَا ثَابِتٌ الْبُنَانِيُّ ، عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ ، أَنَّ الْيَهُودَ كَانَتْ إِذَا حَاضَتْ مِنْهُمُ امْرَأَةٌ أَخْرَجُوهَا مِنَ الْبَيْتِ وَلَمْ يُؤَاكِلُوهَا وَلَمْ يُشَارِبُوهَا وَلَمْ يُجَامِعُوهَا فِي الْبَيْتِ ، فَسُئِلَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَنْ ذَلِكَ ، فَأَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى : وَيَسْأَلُونَكَ عَنِ الْمَحِيضِ قُلْ هُوَ أَذًى فَاعْتَزِلُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي الْمَحِيضِ سورة البقرة آية 222 إِلَى آخِرِ الْآيَةِ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " جَامِعُوهُنَّ فِي الْبُيُوتِ وَاصْنَعُوا كُلَّ شَيْءٍ غَيْرَ النِّكَاحِ " ، فَقَالَتْ الْيَهُودُ : مَا يُرِيدُ هَذَا الرَّجُلُ أَنْ يَدَعَ شَيْئًا مِنْ أَمْرِنَا إِلَّا خَالَفَنَا فِيهِ ، فَجَاءَ أُسَيْدُ بْنُ حُضَيْرٍ وَ عَبَّادُ بْنُ بِشْرٍ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَا : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ الْيَهُودَ تَقُولُ كَذَا وَكَذَا ، أَفَلَا نَنْكِحُهُنَّ فِي الْمَحِيضِ ؟ فَتَمَعَّرَ وَجْهُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حَتَّى ظَنَنَّا أَنْ قَدْ وَجَدَ عَلَيْهِمَا ، فَخَرَجَا هَدِيَّةٌ مِنْ لَبَنٍ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَبَعَثَ فِي آثَارِهِمَا ، فَظَنَنَّا أَنَّهُ لَمْ يَجِدْ عَلَيْهِمَا .
Anas bin Malik said Among the Jews when a woman menstruated, they did not eat with her and drink with her and did not associate with her in their houses, so the Messenger of Allah ﷺ was questioned about it. Hence, Allah the Exalted revealed “And they ask you about menstruation, . Say “It is harmful, so keep aloof from women during menstruation till the end of the verse. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said “Associate with them in the houses and do everything except sexual intercourse. The Jews thereupon said “This man does not leave anything we do without opposing us in it. Usaid bin Hudair and Abbad bin Bishr came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said, Messenger of Allah ﷺ the Jews are saying such and such. Shall we not have intercourse with them during their menstruation? The face of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ underwent such a change that we thought he was angry with them, so they went out. They were met by a gift of milk which was being brought to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and he sent after them, whereby we felt that he was not angry with them.
Hadith 2166
حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى ، عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ صُبْحٍ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ خِلَاسًا الْهَجَرِيَّ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا ، تَقُولُ : " كُنْتُ أَنَا وَرَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ نَبِيتُ فِي الشِّعَارِ الْوَاحِدِ وَأَنَا حَائِضٌ طَامِثٌ ، فَإِنْ أَصَابَهُ مِنِّي شَيْءٌ غَسَلَ مَكَانَهُ وَلَمْ يَعْدُهُ ، وَإِنْ أَصَابَ ، تَعْنِي ثَوْبَهُ ، مِنْهُ شَيْءٌ غَسَلَ مَكَانَهُ وَلَمْ يَعْدُهُ وَصَلَّى فِيهِ " .
Narrated Aishah, Ummul Muminin: I and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to lie in one cloth at night while I was menstruating. If anything from me smeared him, he washed the same place (that was smeared), and did not wash beyond it. If anything from him smeared his clothe, he washed the same place and did not wash beyond that, and prayed with it (i. e. the clothe).
Hadith 2167
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْعَلَاءِ ، وَمُسَدَّدٌ ، قَالَا : حَدَّثَنَا حَفْصٌ ، عَنْ الشَّيْبَانِيِّ ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ شَدَّادٍ ، عَنْ خَالَتِهِ مَيْمُونَةَ بِنْتِ الْحَارِثِ ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَانَ " إِذَا أَرَادَ أَنْ يُبَاشِرَ امْرَأَةً مِنْ نِسَائِهِ وَهِيَ حَائِضٌ ، أَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَتَّزِرَ ثُمَّ يُبَاشِرُهَا " .
Maimunah daughter of Al Harith said “When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ intended to associate and lie with any of his wives who was menstruating, he ordered her to wrap up the lower garment (loin-cloth) and then he had association with her.
