1؎: One way to reconcile the narrations regarding the prohibition and permissibility of attaining purity (taharah) with water left over by men and women is to interpret the prohibitive narrations as referring to the water that has fallen from the limbs while washing, and the permissive narrations as referring to the water that remains in the vessel. Another way is to interpret the prohibitive narrations as being a discouragement (nahi tanzeehi) rather than an absolute prohibition.
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi
Benefits and Issues: This prohibition is either from before the concession was granted, or it is based on precaution. However, in Kitab al-‘Ilal of Tirmidhi, it is mentioned that Imam Bukhari rahimahullah declared the hadith of Hakam ibn ‘Amr al-Aqra‘ to be weak. And the more correct view is that which was mentioned in the previous chapter: that a woman and a man may perform ablution (wudu) and ritual bath (ghusl) using water left over and used by each other.
Source: Sunan Abu Dawood – Commentary by Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi, Page: 82
´A1-Hakim bin Amr AI-Ghifari narrated that:` "The Prophet forbade that a man should perform Wudu with the leftover (water) from a woman's purifcation." Or, he said: "from her drinking."
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
English Commentary: 1: From this prohibition, a prohibition of tanzih (discouragement, not absolute forbiddance) is intended, that is, it is better not to use it. The evidence for this is those hadiths which indicate permissibility, or this prohibition will be applied to that water which falls from the limbs during ablution (wudu), because that is used water (ma’ musta‘mal).
2: The meaning is that the narration of Mahmood ibn Ghailan is with an expression of doubt, while that of Muhammad ibn Bashshar is without an expression of doubt.
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 64
It was narrated from Al-Hakam bin 'Amr that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) forbade a man from performing Wudu' with the leftovers of a woman's (water for) Wudu'.
Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
344. Commentary: See Sunan an-Nasa'i Hadith: 72, 233, 239 and their benefits and issues:
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 344