سنن ابي داود
Sunan Abi Dawud
كتاب الأدب
General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab)
باب فِي حُسْنِ الْعِشْرَةِ
Chapter: Regarding good interactions with people.
Hadith 4791
حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ ابْنِ الْمُنْكَدِرِ ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : " اسْتَأْذَنَ رَجُلٌ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : بِئْسَ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ ، أَوْ بِئْسَ رَجُلُ الْعَشِيرَةِ ، ثُمَّ قَالَ : ائْذَنُوا لَهُ ، فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ أَلَانَ لَهُ الْقَوْلَ ، فَقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، أَلَنْتَ لَهُ الْقَوْلَ وَقَدْ قُلْتَ لَهُ مَا قُلْتَ ، قَالَ : إِنَّ شَرَّ النَّاسِ عِنْدَ اللَّهِ مَنْزِلَةً يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ مَنْ وَدَعَهُ ، أَوْ تَرَكَهُ النَّاسُ لِاتِّقَاءِ فُحْشِهِ " .
Aishah said: A man asked permission to see the Prophet ﷺ, and he said: He is a bad son of the tribe, or: He is a bad member of the tribe. He then said: Give him permission. Then when he entered, he spoke to him leniently. Aishah asked: Messenger of Allah! You spoke to him leniently while you said about him what you said! He replied: The one who will have the worst position in Allah’s estimation on the day of resurrection will be the one whom people left alone for fear of his ribaldry.
