Hadith 3163

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ كَثِيرٍ ، أَخْبَرَنَا سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ عَاصِمِ بْنِ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ ، عَنِ الْقَاسِمِ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : رَأَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ " يُقَبِّلُ عُثْمَانَ بْنَ مَظْعُونٍ وَهُوَ مَيِّتٌ . حتَّى رَأَيْتُ الدُّمُوعَ تَسِيلُ " .
Narrated Aishah, Ummul Muminin: I saw the Messenger of Allah ﷺ that he kissed Uthman ibn Maz'un while he was dead, and I saw that tears were flowing (from his eyes).
Hadith Reference سنن ابي داود / كتاب الجنائز / 3163
Hadith Grading الألبانی: صحيح  |  زبیر علی زئی: ضعيف, إسناده ضعيف, ترمذي (989) ابن ماجه (1456), عاصم بن عبيداللّٰه ضعيف, وللحديث شواھد ضعيفة عند البزار (الكشف : 806) و أبي نعيم (حلية الأولياء :105/1) وغيرھما, انوار الصحيفه، صفحه نمبر 117
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Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi
Benefits and Issues:
A Muslim is never impure (najis), neither during life nor after death.
There is nothing objectionable in kissing one’s beloved deceased.
And shedding tears out of grief for them is a natural matter.
There is no harm in this.
Source: Sunan Abu Dawood – Commentary by Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi, Page: 3163
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
1:
This hadith indicates that it is permissible to kiss a deceased Muslim and to weep over them. As for those hadiths in which weeping is prohibited, they should be understood as referring to such weeping that involves wailing and lamentation.

Note:

(See:
Taraaji‘ al-Albani 495)
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 989
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:

Hazrat Uthman bin Maz'oon was among the eminent Companions (radi Allahu anhum ajma'een). Before him, only thirteen individuals had embraced Islam. He was honored with both the migration to Abyssinia and the migration to Madinah. He also participated in the Battle of Badr. Nawab Waheed uz-Zaman Khan has written that Hazrat Uthman bin Maz'oon was also a milk-brother of the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam).


Weeping and shedding tears due to grief is not contrary to patience. Rather, it is a sign of mercy and tenderness of heart.


The aforementioned narration is weak in its chain of transmission. Kissing the deceased is not established from the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam); however, Hazrat Abu Bakr as-Siddiq (radi Allahu anhu) kissed the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) after his passing, as will be mentioned in the following narration.
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 1456