Hadith 236

حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ الْخَيَّاطُ ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ الْعُمَرِيُّ ، عَنْ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ ، عَنِ الْقَاسِمِ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : " سُئِلَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَنِ الرَّجُلِ يَجِدُ الْبَلَلَ وَلَا يَذْكُرُ احْتِلَامًا ، قَالَ : يَغْتَسِلُ ، وَعَنِ الرَّجُلِ يَرَى أَنَّهُ قَدِ احْتَلَمَ وَلَا يَجِدُ الْبَلَلَ ، قَالَ : لَا غُسْلَ عَلَيْهِ ، فَقَالَتْ أُمُّ سُلَيْمٍ : الْمَرْأَةُ تَرَى ذَلِكَ ، أَعَلَيْهَا غُسْلٌ ؟ قَالَ : نَعَمْ ، إِنَّمَا النِّسَاءُ شَقَائِقُ الرِّجَالِ " .
Narrated Aishah, Ummul Muminin: The Prophet ﷺ was asked about a person who found moisture (on his body or clothes) but did not remember the sexual dream. He replied: He should take a bath. He was asked about a person who remembered that he had a sexual dream but did not find moisture. He replied: Bath is not necessary for him. Umm Salamah then asked: Is washing necessary for a woman if she sees that (in her dream)? He replied: Yes. Woman are counterpart of men.
Hadith Reference سنن ابي داود / كتاب الطهارة / 236
Hadith Grading الألبانی: حسن إلا قول أم سليم المرأة ترى الخ  |  زبیر علی زئی: ضعيف, إسناده ضعيف, ترمذي (113)،ابن ماجه (612)،ويأتي (3721), وقال الترمذي: ’’وعبد اللّٰه ضعفه يحيي بن سعيد من قبل حفظه‘‘, ولبعض الحديث شواھد عند مسلم (314) وغيره،انظر الحديث الآتي (الأصل: 237), انوار الصحيفه، صفحه نمبر 21
Hadith Takhrij « سنن الترمذی/الطھارة 82 (113)، سنن ابن ماجہ/الطھارة 112 (613)، (تحفة الأشراف: 17539)، وقد أخرجہ: مسند احمد (6/256)، سنن الدارمی/الطھارة (76/790) (حسن) إلا قول أم سليم: المرأة ترى ... » (ام سلیم کا کلام صحیح نہیں جو عبداللہ العمری کی روایت میں ہے اور یہ ضعیف راوی ہیں، بقیہ ٹکڑوں کے صحیح شواہد موجود ہیں)
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Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi
Benefits and Issues:
➊ This narration is weak in its chain of transmission. However, this narration has also been transmitted through several other routes, and therefore, according to some researchers, it becomes strong due to these routes. [الموسوعة الحديثية43؍265‘266]
Shaykh al-Albani rahimahullah has also graded it as hasan. See: [مشكوة للالبانى‘حديث : 441]
Moreover, the issue mentioned in this narration is also established by a narration in Sahih Muslim, in which Sayyidah Umm Sulaym radi Allahu anha came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and asked: “If a woman experiences a wet dream (i.e., nocturnal emission), is ritual bath (ghusl) obligatory upon her just as it is upon a man?” The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam replied: “Yes, if she sees the fluid.” [صحيح مسلم الحيض حديث : 313]
From this, it is clear that there is no difference between men and women in this matter. Whoever experiences a wet dream (in a state of sleep), whether they remember it or not, but if their clothes are wet, then ritual bath (ghusl) is obligatory upon them—provided that their clothes are not wet in the manner of being wet with urine, because in that case ritual bath (ghusl) will not be obligatory. And if they remember having a wet dream in their sleep, but there is no sign (moisture) on their clothes, then ritual bath (ghusl) is not obligatory.
Source: Sunan Abu Dawood – Commentary by Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi, Page: 236
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
1:
In reality, due to deficiency in memorization, Abdullah al-‘Umari is considered weak by all the Imams. However, the last portion of this hadith is narrated in the Sahihayn from the hadith of Umm Salamah radi Allahu anha, and the first portion is strengthened by the hadith of Khawlah bint Hakim—which is hasan (good)—and thus is authentic (the hadith of Khawlah is in Ibn Majah; see number: 602).

Note:
(The statement of Umm Salamah (or Umm Sulaym) is found only in this narration of Abdullah al-‘Umari, and he is weak. Authentic corroborating reports exist for the remaining portions. See: Sahih Sunan Abi Dawud 234)
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 113