Hadith 2164

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْعَزِيزِ بْنُ يَحْيَى أَبُو الْأَصْبَغِ ، حَدَّثَنِي مُحَمَّدٌ يَعْنِي ابْنَ سَلَمَةَ ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقَ ، عَنْ أَبَانَ بْنِ صَالِحٍ ، عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ ، عَنْ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ، قَالَ : " إِنَّ ابْنَ عُمَرَ وَاللَّهُ يَغْفِرُ لَهُ أَوْهَمَ إِنَّمَا كَانَ هَذَا الْحَيُّ مِنْ الْأَنْصَارِ وَهُمْ أَهْلُ وَثَنٍ مَعَ هَذَا الْحَيِّ مِنْ يَهُودَ وَهُمْ أَهْلُ كِتَابٍ ، وَكَانُوا يَرَوْنَ لَهُمْ فَضْلًا عَلَيْهِمْ فِي الْعِلْمِ فَكَانُوا يَقْتَدُونَ بِكَثِيرٍ مِنْ فِعْلِهِمْ ، وَكَانَ مِنْ أَمْرِ أَهْلِ الْكِتَابِ أَنْ لَا يَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ إِلَّا عَلَى حَرْفٍ وَذَلِكَ أَسْتَرُ مَا تَكُونُ الْمَرْأَةُ ، فَكَانَ هَذَا الْحَيُّ مِنْ الْأَنْصَارِ قَدْ أَخَذُوا بِذَلِكَ مِنْ فِعْلِهِمْ ، وَكَانَ هَذَا الْحَيُّ مِنْ قُرَيْشٍ يَشْرَحُونَ النِّسَاءَ شَرْحًا مُنْكَرًا وَيَتَلَذَّذُونَ مِنْهُنَّ مُقْبِلَاتٍ وَمُدْبِرَاتٍ وَمُسْتَلْقِيَاتٍ ، فَلَمَّا قَدِمَ الْمُهَاجِرُونَ الْمَدِينَةَ تَزَوَّجَ رَجُلٌ مِنْهُمُ امْرَأَةً مِنْ الْأَنْصَارِ فَذَهَبَ يَصْنَعُ بِهَا ذَلِكَ فَأَنْكَرَتْهُ عَلَيْهِ ، وَقَالَتْ : إِنَّمَا كُنَّا نُؤْتَى عَلَى حَرْفٍ ، فَاصْنَعْ ذَلِكَ وَإِلَّا فَاجْتَنِبْنِي ، حَتَّى شَرِيَ أَمْرُهُمَا ، فَبَلَغَ ذَلِكَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَأَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ : نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ سورة البقرة آية 223 ، أَيْ مُقْبِلَاتٍ وَمُدْبِرَاتٍ وَمُسْتَلْقِيَاتٍ ، يَعْنِي بِذَلِكَ مَوْضِعَ الْوَلَدِ .
Narrated Abdullah Ibn Abbas: Ibn Umar misunderstood (the Quranic verse, "So come to your tilth however you will")--may Allah forgive him. The fact is that this clan of the Ansar, who were idolaters, lived in the company of the Jews who were the people of the Book. They (the Ansar) accepted their superiority over themselves in respect of knowledge, and they followed most of their actions. The people of the Book (i. e. the Jews) used to have intercourse with their women on one side alone (i. e. lying on their backs). This was the most concealing position for (the vagina of) the women. This clan of the Ansar adopted this practice from them. But this tribe of the Quraysh used to uncover their women completely, and seek pleasure with them from in front and behind and laying them on their backs. When the muhajirun (the immigrants) came to Madina, a man married a woman of the Ansar. He began to do the same kind of action with her, but she disliked it, and said to him: We were approached on one side (i. e. lying on the back); do it so, otherwise keep away from me. This matter of theirs spread widely, and it reached the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. So Allah, the Exalted, sent down the Quranic verse: "Your wives are a tilth to you, so come to your tilth however you will, " i. e. from in front, from behind or lying on the back. But this verse meant the place of the delivery of the child, i. e. the vagina.
Hadith Reference سنن ابي داود / كتاب النكاح / 2164
Hadith Grading الألبانی: حسن  |  زبیر علی زئی: حسن, انظر معاني الآثار (3/41 وسنده صحيح) ابن إسحاق صرح بالسماع عند الحاكم (2/279) والمحاربي صرح بالسماع عنده في رواية ابن حجر، انظر اتحاف المھرة (8/9)
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Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi
Benefits and Issues:
➊ Having intercourse with one’s wife in the place of excretion (anus) is forbidden (haram) and an accursed act, because the Messenger (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said: “He is accursed who has intercourse with his wife in her anus.”
Regarding this, it is also stated elsewhere: Allah Ta’ala will not look at the person who engages in sexual activity in the anus of a man or a woman.
In light of these statements, men should avoid this vile act, and a woman should not obey her husband regarding this grave evil; if he asks her to do so, she should refuse.

➋ At the beginning of the hadith, where there is a reference to Ibn Umar (radi Allahu anhu) regarding the interpretation of the mentioned verse, there is some disagreement; apparently, this is not correct, but Ibn Abbas (radi Allahu anhu) was informed of it in this way.
However, Ibn Umar (radi Allahu anhu) was not of this opinion, as Allamah Ibn Qayyim (rahimahullah) has clarified.
(Hawashi Awn al-Ma’bud)
Source: Sunan Abu Dawood – Commentary by Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi, Page: 2164