سنن ابي داود
Sunan Abi Dawud
كتاب النكاح
Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah)
باب فِي الْقَسْمِ بَيْنَ النِّسَاءِ
Chapter: Dividing (Fairly) Between One’s Wives.
Hadith 2136
حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ مَعِينٍ ، وَمُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عِيسَى الْمَعْنَى ، قَالَا : حَدَّثَنَا عَبَّادُ بْنُ عَبَّادٍ ، عَنْ عَاصِمٍ ، عَنْ مُعَاذَةَ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : " كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَسْتَأْذِنُنَا إِذَا كَانَ فِي يَوْمِ الْمَرْأَةِ مِنَّا بَعْدَ مَا نَزَلَتْ : تُرْجِي مَنْ تَشَاءُ مِنْهُنَّ وَتُؤْوِي إِلَيْكَ مَنْ تَشَاءُ سورة الأحزاب آية 51" ، قَالَتْ مَعَاذَةُ : فَقُلْتُ لَهَا : مَا كُنْتِ تَقُولِينَ لِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ؟ قَالَتْ : كُنْتُ أَقُولُ : " إِنْ كَانَ ذَلِكَ إِلَيَّ لَمْ أُوثِرْ أَحَدًا عَلَى نَفْسِي " .
Narrated Aishah: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to aske our permission on the day he had to stay with one of his wives (by turns) after the following Quranic verse was revealed: "You may distance those whom you like, and draw close to those whom you like" [33: 51]. The narrator Muadhah said: I said to her: What did you say to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ ? She said: I used to say: If had an option for that, I would not preferred anyone to myself.
