Hadith 213

حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ الْيَزَنِيُّ ، حَدَّثَنَا بَقِيَّةُ بْنُ الْوَلِيدِ ، عَنْ سَعْدٍ الْأَغْطَشِ وَهُوَ ابْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَائِذٍ الْأَزْدِيِّ ، قَالَ هِشَامٌ وَهُوَ ابْنُ قُرْطٍ أَمِيرُ حِمْصَ ، عَنْ مُعَاذِ بْنِ جَبَلٍ ، قَالَ : " سَأَلْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَمَّا يَحِلُّ لِلرَّجُلِ مِنَ امْرَأَتِهِ وَهِيَ حَائِضٌ ، قَالَ : فَقَالَ : مَا فَوْقَ الْإِزَارِ ، وَالتَّعَفُّفُ عَنْ ذَلِكَ أَفْضَلُ " ، قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُد : وَلَيْسَ هُوَ يَعْنِي الْحَدِيثَ بِالْقَوِيِّ .
Narrated Muadh ibn Jabal: I asked the Messenger of Allah ﷺ: What is lawful for a man to do with his wife when she is menstruating? He replied: What is above the waist-wrapper, but it is better to abstain from it, too. Abu Dawud said: This (tradition) is not strong.
Hadith Reference سنن ابي داود / كتاب الطهارة / 213
Hadith Grading الألبانی: ضعيف  |  زبیر علی زئی: ضعيف, إسناده ضعيف, عبد الرحمٰن بن عائذ لم يدرك معاذ بن جبل رضي اللّٰه عنه،قاله أبو حاتم الرازي (المراسيل ص 125 رقم: 448), انوار الصحيفه، صفحه نمبر 21
Hadith Takhrij «أخرجه : الطبراني فى الكبير : 20/ 100، ح : 194 من طريق آخر عن عبدالرحمٰن ابن عائذ به وهو لم يدرك معاذ بن جبل كما فى جامع التحصيل للعلائي، ص: 223 ، تفرد به أبو داود، (تحفة الأشراف: 11332) (ضعیف)» ‏‏‏‏
سعدالأغطش لین الحدیث اور بقیہ مدلس ہیں۔
Related hadith on this topic
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi
Benefits and Issues:
➊ During the specific days, young married couples should exercise utmost caution; it is quite possible that they may reach such a point that returning becomes difficult. However, intimacy (without intercourse) is permissible, because the aforementioned hadith is weak.
Source: Sunan Abu Dawood – Commentary by Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi, Page: 213
Shaykh Safi ur-Rahman Mubarakpuri
Lexical Explanation:
«مَا فَوْقَ الْإِزَار» can have two meanings: First, by "izar" is meant intercourse and mutual conjugal relations, i.e., for the husband, everything except intercourse is permissible. The second meaning is: in place of trousers or lower garment, i.e., leaving the area from the navel to the knees, intimacy with the rest of the body is lawful. According to the second meaning, this is in opposition to the hadith of Sayyiduna Anas radi Allahu anhu «اِصْنَعُوا كُلَّ شَيْءٍ إِلَّا النِّكَاح», because from the hadith of Sayyiduna Anas, only intercourse is prohibited, whereas in this, enjoyment from the entire area between the navel and the knees is prohibited. However, firstly, this narration is weak; secondly, from this, only the first meaning—intercourse and sexual relations—will be taken, so that both hadiths are in agreement. In a narration of Sunan al-Nasa’i, it is mentioned that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would lie with one of his wives during her menstruation while she had tied an izar up to half her thigh. [سنن النسائي، الطهارة، باب مباشرة الحائض، حديث : 288] By reflecting on this hadith and both of the aforementioned hadiths, it becomes clear that during menstruation, it is not a condition for intimacy that an izar be tied from the navel to the knees; enjoyment from the area above the knees is also permissible. The purpose of the izar is to prevent intercourse and protect from blood, whether it covers up to the knees, half the thigh, or even less than that.
Source: Bulugh al-Maram: Commentary by Safiur Rahman Mubarakpuri, Page: 127