سنن ابي داود
Sunan Abi Dawud
كتاب النكاح
Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah)
باب فِي الاِسْتِئْمَارِ
Chapter: Seeking The Girl’s Permission.
Hadith 2094
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْعَلَاءِ ، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ إِدْرِيسَ ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو بِهَذَا الْحَدِيثِ بِإِسْنَادِهِ ، زَادَ فِيهِ : قَالَ : " فَإِنْ بَكَتْ أَوْ سَكَتَتْ " ، زَادَ : بَكَتْ . قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُد : وَلَيْسَ بَكَتْ بِمَحْفُوظٍ ، وَهُوَ وَهْمٌ فِي الْحَدِيثِ ، الْوَهْمُ مِنْ ابْنِ إِدْرِيسَ أَوْ مِنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْعَلَاءِ . قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُد : وَرَوَاهُ أَبُو عَمْرٍو ذَكْوَانُ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ الْبِكْرَ تَسْتَحِي أَنْ تَتَكَلَّمَ قَالَ : " سُكَاتُهَا إِقْرَارُهَا " .
The aforesaid tradition has also been transmitted through a different chain of narrators by Muhammad bin Amr. This version adds “If she weeps or keeps silence”. The narrator added the word “weeps”. Abu Dawud said: The word "weeps" is not guarded. This is a misunderstanding of the tradition on the part of the narrator Ibn Idris or Muhammad bin al-Ata. Abu Dawud said: This tradition has also been narrated by Abu Amr Dhakwan on the authority of Aishah who said: A virgin is ashamed of speaking, Messenger of Allah. He said: Her silence is her acceptance.
